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3 days ago

Tub in Stuff

Megan’s new yard complete with fancy landscaping that almost doesn’t fit in the neighborhood, beautiful slate patio and walkways, and hot tub that would make a fine resort jealous is finally comp...


May 17, 2018

Dating in Stuff

It seems like several people in my life recently have either been trying to date or have started new relationships, so it’s occurred to me that I’ve been in a bit of a dry patch myself. I haven’...


May 16, 2018

Partner in Stuff

I’m trying to be modern and understanding of these new things, but I admit I’m still a bit confused. Mercy has a girlfriend now. And that’s weird because it was my understanding that Mercy was ...


May 08, 2018

These two things in Stuff

I feel like all I write about here anymore is about my interactions with Megan. And I suppose it really is a big part of my life these days, which is still weird to me when I consider that we’ve...


May 02, 2018

Solitude in Stuff

I was tired and frustrated and hormonal yesterday and I feel like as a result I was a bad friend to Megan. I feel a little guilty about that, but I also feel a little like I’m entitled to be in ...


April 26, 2018

Blue hair in Stuff

It’s interesting to me that what Megan called “getting a hot tub” has really translated into having her entire back yard dug up. These contractors don’t just install a tub, but they redesign the ...


April 23, 2018

Blues in Stuff

Olsen has taken a job working at a nearby resort in their housekeeping department. I’m very pleased and kind of surprised. I can’t picture my daughter cleaning people’s messes for a living. I ...


April 16, 2018

Weirdness in Stuff

Super awkward moment over the weekend and I feel like sharing it here to see if people agree or if I’m overreacting. I was at Megan’s place on Saturday afternoon. She was drinking wine, I was d...


April 12, 2018

With kids in Stuff

I feel like my time for writing here has been less and less recently, and I’ve gone from writing probably every other day to writing about once per week. It’s really busy with work right now. W...


April 04, 2018

Needy in Stuff

I don’t want to complain that Megan is needy, even though she really is. She’s easily the most needy person in my life, far more than my children. But I feel like I’ve been so detached from a s...


April 02, 2018

Wicked Queer in Stuff

We spent much of our free time this last week at the LGBTQ Film Festival. Somebody in my family and/or Megan was probably at just about every film. I lost count but I know I went to at least fi...


March 30, 2018

Motherly in Stuff

I happened to be standing near a window yesterday and looking outside when I saw Megan in her driveway with some guy. They were clearly affectionate with each other, although from the distance I...


March 29, 2018

New in Stuff

Harrison has a new boyfriend and I can’t say that I really like him. I keep reminding myself that this is part of life and I’m not going to like every guy she brings home. I certainly haven’t l...


March 23, 2018

First time in Stuff

Mercer, Harrison, and I went to see a movie last night. We’ve been off our schedule with weekend movies lately because of the constant barrage of stormy weather. But we made it out for an eveni...


March 21, 2018

My naked problem in Stuff

This is another awkward thing to write about, which seems to be mostly what I come here to write about. And maybe that’s exactly what this place is for. If it were all simple easy things I woul...


March 20, 2018

Decide in Stuff

If I’m being totally honest, I feel like my control on my family is disappearing. I guess it’s something I knew would happen eventually. But when your kids are little, you’re in charge and you ...


March 16, 2018

The family in Stuff

I vented a lot to Megan over the last week and she texted me yesterday afternoon and suggested we go out for dinner and a movie, just the two of us. We agreed to make it a girls’ night, and not ...


March 14, 2018

Float in Stuff

We drove to the therapy appointment together in silence, and that was perhaps the most unnerving part of the whole evening. Mercer can be a quiet kid, but particularly when we are alone together...


March 12, 2018

Therapy in Stuff

Mercer has asked me if I will attend a joint session with him and his therapist. I’m of course 100% willing to do so, but it alarms me and makes me wonder what it is that we need to discuss in a...


March 08, 2018

Growing in Stuff

I’ve been struggling to decide how to start writing this. It’s not a big deal, but something I’ve been noticing lately. And I’m not sure how to write about the fact that I’ve noticed it without...


March 06, 2018

Wife in Stuff

We had a break between storms and Megan texted to ask if she could take us all out to dinner. I agreed, somewhat reluctantly. Not because I wasn’t interested in going out, but because I didn’t ...


February 23, 2018

Multiple in Stuff

Weird and interesting conversation I had with Megan last week. She had invited me over to smoke weed with her and we hung out together in her bedroom with all the windows open looking out over h...


February 21, 2018

Not weird in Stuff

I was just talking to a client and jokingly mentioning that he appreciates the way I can be an asshole at times and that he’ll miss it when we’re no longer working together on this case. He resp...


February 16, 2018

Break ups in Stuff

A few days without writing and I feel like I have several things to write about. I’ll start with good news and then move onto all the sadness in my house right now. The composting toilet is my n...


February 09, 2018

Smoke in Stuff

Harry doesn’t really carry a purse these days. She has this thing that looks more like a gym bag. This is perfectly fine with me since it’s a much more cost effective choice. I personally don’...


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