king of i ⋅

Welcome to the ramblings of a 40-something who’s been back in his home town for a few years now, after more than a decade away. It snows here, that's my main gripe. Despite some whining I'm a pretty simple guy living a pretty simple life, and not a bad one at that. Drop me a line at the.king.of.iii@gmail.com.

"Who am I? Why am I here?"

James Stockdale

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I’ve been meaning to write for a while, but you know how that goes. Now that I’m on vacation, I’m searching for things to do and writing here is a good time-killer. The past couple months have be...


August 31, 2021

20 years in Everyday life

I’d meant to post this on or around Aug. 1, but forgot. I keep forgetting that this is here. Anyway I’ve now been doing this online diary thing for 20 years. Yes, 20. My first post: https://www.o...


September 20, 2020

Long time, no talk in Everyday life

I have an iOS reminder set up for the second of every month. Flip my calendar. Write in Prosebox/OD. I go in fits and starts about complying with the notification. Since I moved (more on that b...


A couple weeks ago I was told they were letting us work from home for a couple days because of the coronavirus stuff. No big deal, I figured. My plan: work from home on Friday, a slower day, to w...


December 13, 2019

End of the road? in Everyday life

I wasn’t hired for one job at work for which I was well qualified. They hired someone who’d been there for a year, not seven. There is another job opening where I won’t be considered. I know it....


I sure hope this is true. A nominal supervisor appears to be trying to show me up in a few of our company’s Slack channels. (Oh yeah, I dislike Slack.) At least having it in there means it’s on t...


March 04, 2019

Improv in Everyday life

A couple months ago I started taking a 101-level improv class. It’s been challenging and fun at the same time. At the end of every semester, you do a show to show off what you’ve learned. Mine...


I’m going under the knife Friday. It’s the first time I’ve had surgery. Assuming this is successful, let’s hope it’s the last. What’s happening? I’m having my tonsils removed. Yes, tonsils. I’m a...


Every time I open up one of those lengthy everyone-is-great work e-mails and see my name not mentioned, or buried pretty far down there after about 46 others, I remember that I have no future at ...


When OD disappeared, I tried to download my diary and it didn’t seem to work. I figured it was all lost. When it returned, I made a vow: I’m cutting and pasting everything into my PB. And that’s ...


January 27, 2018

The Great Diary War in Everyday life

I’ve seen the entries today and I felt like getting on my soapbox and shouting nonsense. A. I’m not taking sides, I find both sites have positive and negative points, but … B. I’ve never felt th...


This could refer to this entry, but instead it refers to work. For those who don’t know, I work in journalism. I’m working on a time-sensitive story, something I’d like to get done by 6 a.m. And ...


November 13, 2017

Screwing up in Everyday life

I have a job where my name usually isn’t attached to my work. But when I fuck up, everyone sees it. It’s in a very prominent place. Even if my name is not attached to it, I know it was me that ...


October 21, 2017

Depression in Everyday life

Sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever be “normal” and not get into these routine funks.


I made an impromptu trip to the old haunts last weekend to visit friends. I’d been down that way in April, but after canceling a recent trip to South Carolina (more on that here) I had a flight v...


I spent 20 years trying to run away from my high school experience. Damn, I was sick of those people. At least for a few years. But as the years wore on, I was hoping we’d all get together. We ha...


July 07, 2017

Ugh. Again. in Everyday life

I went on a first date with this lady – we’ll call her S – a day or two before New Year’s. We’re both wicked sarcastic, and immediately I felt a chemistry. We also were both amazingly defensive, ...


June 26, 2017

Sigh in Everyday life

I try to not get political, but . . . This is what it’s come to, demonizing an entire group of people. In this case, brown ones. It happened to the micks/paddys and the wops and many other immi...


April 26, 2017

Dreams in Everyday life

She has been appeared in a couple of dreams lately, even though I swear I’m trying to move on. The first was last week at my not-girlfriend’s place. In the middle of the night. It wasn’t a sexua...


April 09, 2017

A random update in Everyday life

I had a feeling this would happen. Life calms down, and I stop writing. Sorry. I’m looking forward to vacation. In a few days, I head to D.C. to visit friends. I’ll stay with a college friend and...


February is usually the worst month of winter. Perhaps the year. December and January around here tend to be tolerable: there’s snow, but some mild days, too. You’re not that far removed from th...


I’d like to discover new writers on Prosebox. I thought there was a “random” button, but it seems to have disappeared recently. In the event anyone sees this on the homepage: can you steer me in ...


Whoa! Once again a very long absence. I’ll get better about it one of these days. I know I only have a few readers on here, but those of you who know me (and followed me over from OD) know that I...


October 06, 2015

6/10/15 in Everyday life

There’s not much to mention today, but I want to get into a regular writing rhythm, so here’s another post. My friend is in town and we’re having fun. We drove about six hours to visit a mutual f...


September 28, 2015

28/9/15 in Everyday life

I made a vow to start writing in here more often, so I’m gonna write, dammit. There’s really nothing special going on at the moment. This is the part of my night where I start to feel a little do...


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