An open letter to the women who will date my child's father... in Year 24

Dear ladies, You may take comfort in the fact that he describes me in vile, awful, terrible ways, such as a "cunt" and the like. Well, anyone who has this much hate in his heart for someone he once proposed marriage to is ready to say that about anyone, including his next ex. So, please, don't think you're immune to his hatred. Secondly, you may enjoy the fact that he spends every free weekend catering to you, and spending time with you, without considering the effect this has on his daughter. Do you even consider the amount of times he's contacted her in the past month? How can you claim to be in love with someone who sees their child once in a blue moon? How can you preach to me about how he is a wonderful dad without even speaking to me prior? How do you figure he is a "good dad"? Because he gives her a miniscule part of his pay check to pay for her basic needs? That makes him a good dad in your eyes? Someone who fights tooth and nail to not have to pay? So you two can go on luxurious vacations and buy nice things? If you can't put yourself in my position (and you can't, because you're not a mother) at least put yourself in his daughter's shoes, because you, like everyone else on this earth, has a father. Imagine if the man you love was your father. Would you still love him? Would the 1 weekend every six weeks be enough for you? Would having one parent work two jobs so she can give you everything you need make you happy? Just consider that the next time you get butterflies thinking about him. And consider your child could be next.