NJM18 - 27: Financially Speaking... in These Foolish Things

  • Nov. 27, 2018, 9:20 p.m.
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Woke this morning to phone call after phone call from an unrecognized number at 4:30am (Tuesdays and Thursdays are my mornings to sleep in a little). I was trying to ignore the phone, but they just kept calling and calling.

Finally, my ass was fully awake so I decided to Google. And as I was doing a reverse phone number check, my phone chimed that a message had been left.

Turns out it was a hospital in New Jersey calling for someone who is on call overnight and clearly wasn’t getting the message! It was a call that this person was needed in the emergency room…STAT!

I felt horrible that whoever the hospital was trying to call wasn’t getting the message - clearly they had the wrong number on record, so I decided to call the hospital back to let them know. I mean, what if someone were lying in the ER operating room DYING because of this miscommunication?!

I wasn’t even sure what extension to press when the automated menu came up, so I just pressed the one for “doctors”. They answered and I explained that they were calling someone very, very far away and that whomever they were trying to reach was NOT getting the message.

The woman on the line apologized for calling me in the middle of the night and thanked me for calling and she explained that the person they were trying to reach was a “scrub technician” which, I’m not sure I even know what that is, but it sounded less urgent than ER surgeon, so I was relieved. At least I was confident that the patient was not going to die due to a wrong number!

The day got better from there.

Work was interesting in that I spent all day learning a new product category. My company acquired another company during the last few weeks and guess who’s in charge of the product?? Yes, me…the one on the 45-day Improvement Plan. Does this even make sense???

Here I am, sitting in on meetings with the former owner and most important partners of this particular company, plus our CEO, plus Boss, listening to all of the corporate secrets and involving myself in strategy sessions. Does it sound like they wanna fire me???

Who the fuck knows.

But the biggest news of the day was when The Scot sent me a text telling me that the money he’d pulled from his savings into his debit account had just been transferred…and asked me to guess what it is for…? And followed with all kinds of little dancing, airplane, and heart emojis.

Well, that means The Scot is finalizing his plans to FINALLY book his flight. Does that mean he’s done it? Not to me. It just means he now has the £££ in his account to book his ticket.

So yes, it’s clearly a money thing. He’s also told me that it would have been sooooo much less expensive to do this at any other time of year and that he doesn’t want frills and ‘razz’....he just wants to win my heart.

Which, well, okay. I get it. I get it all. It’s a financial burden to come visit over the holidays, but he’s doing it.

And all of the sudden I got super, super nervous.

Because we are this much closer to this thing actually happening. It’s happening!!!

xox,
GS


Athena November 27, 2018

!!!

Deleted user November 27, 2018

It took him long enough but hopefully he carries through ....
That is a strange situation at your job . Kind of unprofessional to say the least :-(

Marg November 28, 2018

I do see his point but then don't understand why he hasn't mentioned the financial side of things before. Unless it's a pride thing?

Athena Marg ⋅ November 28, 2018

It’s probably apparent to him by now from all the FaceTime that there’s an income disparity. That could be hard for a guy, and he might feel nervous that he can’t live up to the expectation of frills.

Parliament Athena ⋅ November 28, 2018

I'm not going to paint my experience as gospel for all men, but I will say this: These aren't very strong arguments in support of why it took him so long. Unfortunately, the only way Ginger is going to find out is if she asks him why. And unfortunately, I don't think she's going to (for fear of "messing it up" or "killing the romance" or somesuch).

I see Elaine's comment below mine and I am firmly in her camp. I want to be wrong. I hold my tongue a lot in reference to the romantic escapades. But in the end, I just want her (you) to find a good, kind, decent man who will make you happy.

When I see her (you) spending time with a dude halfway across the world who is either up to no good or who ultimately won't be able to uphold his share of the financial burden this relationship will bring, it makes me sad. Because every moment spent with the fantasy that is Mr. Flowery Prose is every moment not spent in pursuit of a more realistic option.

Athena Parliament ⋅ November 28, 2018

Oh, I fully agree. I personally would never invest more than a few minutes of energy in a person with a lot of talk, halfway around the world or not. Talk is cheap. Purchasing plane tickets the first time you say you are going to is action. But I am not Ginger. There's no argument at all on my part about why this man took so long. I find it inexcusable and indicative of things to come. I also want to be wrong about the guy. Then again, I also rarely give people a chance to be anything but wrong.

Ginger Snap Athena ⋅ November 28, 2018

I agree too. I'm just NOW starting to feel foolish...especially because I did a quick search this morning on flights from Edinburgh to NYC and there are pretty much none left. :(

Marg Ginger Snap ⋅ November 28, 2018

Oh no! Don't give up though - he may be able to get a flight from another airport although I concede that if Edinburgh isn't coming up with anything that's not a good sign :(

Athena Ginger Snap ⋅ November 28, 2018

To be clear though: I want nothing more than for this to end in a shower of fireworks between you and The Scot in NYC. Never have I wanted to be so wrong so badly. xoxox

Satine November 28, 2018

You're such a good egg - I really hope it works out <3

Gangleri November 28, 2018

Oh, here he comes, yo.

Fred November 28, 2018

Does the man not have a credit card?!

He could fly from Manchester or even Heathrow. Either would likely have more options and lower prices than Edinburgh.

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