Writing this in 2020, I am divorced with one daughter and three grandchildren - two girls and a boy all under 7. I’m really lucky to live only half an hour away from them :)
In 2010 I went into a particularly nasty perimenopause and was left with extreme fatigue which was eventually diagnosed 6 years later as chronic fatigue. In 2015 and 2017 I was seriously ill after very bad reactions and severe withdrawal from 2 different prescribed drugs. Life now is making the best of the ‘new normal’!