little things in Second 1st
- Nov. 15, 2018, 7:36 a.m.
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Last one, just a rundown of current plans for today nothing interesting or important. After writing the last 2 entries it’s already 7:25. I woke Sammy at 6, I had gotten up only moments before. he is still not up and about but I don’t care except that I was hopeful to have the house to myself for a few hours. No matter. It’s not like I’d do anything I can’t do with anyone here. Laundry, dishes, the LAX diamond painting. I need to run to somewhere for fruit for the weekend. Think I should wait for Rocky? Being as he’s off at 2 today.... but if I’m done with the other stuff there will be no reason to wait. I have a couple things to cook.... so then more dishes. i’m debating them this morning. Yesterday when I went to bed there was 2 small bowls. Rocky had pizza so there was his pan and a plate. When Sammy got home he make pancakes.... again.... 3rd meal in a row.... each time he does it’s a bowl and pan measuring cup, sticky plate. … the sink is looking kinda full now and I’m waiting.
The later it is taht Sammy gets up the more I think he’s not going to class today. The more I think that the more i want to tell him to wash dishes. .... but the longer I wait the less time I have to do them and when I start cooking it’s going to be more me than anyone else.... and the sooner I get things cooked the more time I can spend on the diamond painting.... and this is how it is....
Yesterday, Rocky got up decently early and we went to Opry Mills before the doc @ 2:00. We had gotten back at like 11.... Rocky had said he was going to get dishes done when we got back from the doc.... but why? if we had so much time before? .... so I did them. he played video games.
Gilraent ⋅ November 16, 2018
I know it's hard, but you have to put your foot down. Boundaries are important. Everyone should be responsible for cleaning up their own mess. Or, if you cook someone else has to do the dishes. Stuff like that. We do the cooking/dishes thing here most of the time.
I would be a horrible mom. I would take my kids dishes out of the sink,put them in a bag or something, go to their room with them. Tell them they can't use another plate until those are clean.
Jeez I really would be a mean mom.