Counseling in First entry

Today she sent me.an email telling me she felt the evaluation came back “fine”. I disagree and her inability to even acknowledge there was anything of concern leaves me with a lot of concern. She said this was ridiculous. We should start 50/50 custody immediately.....Hold up! You accused me of Sexual misconduct with my daughter, exposing my son to porn, actively poisoning them against you, committing federal crimes and you think it is the children’s best interest for them to be in my care 50% of the time? Am I the only one that see an issue here? Maybe that’s because every argument from her has been complete bullshit. That’s honestly the nicest way I can think to describe it at this point.

She is a liar, she is morally bankrupt and she is emotionally deaf. All of those are true and that’s not even trying to be disparaging. It’s factual statements I can support with concrete evidence.

I used her email as an opportunity to present a 2nd counselor that specializes in high conflict divorce. I have a 3rd lined up to present her when she says no. I will present as many qualified counselors to her as options as I can. Apparently that upset her because boyfriend replied. He didn’t name himself, but the reply clearly wasn’t written by a woman with a Master’s degree that writes policy manuals for a living. Basically it said that she already selected a counselor and prepaid it, she won’t consider any other counselors. That’s fine, I will still drown her with options. I really hope it is apparent he is writing in her stead. That would be the icing on the cake. What’s funny is they act as if in my catching on to it. I just replied and asked if I needed to continue the search or not.

I am surely hoping that I can come out of this with primary legal custody so I can stop being held hostage and do what the children need. I reviewed my mark ups of his evaluation today. No, the evaluation was not fine and given a couple hours to sit and talk about my concerns, I am pretty sure I can clearly articulate why. 35 pages and it is “fine”.

She has requested communication between myself and all 3rd parties that regard her, her boyfriend or the kids. She ignored my request for the same. The reality is that of she wants it, then I want her. You show me yours and I’ll show you mine. Either we both can put it all out there and see where the truth is. If you been reading my journal for any length of time, I’m pretty sure you know where I stand and how I’ve conducted myself. I’ve had times where I vented and said unkind things. I challenge anyone to say they wouldn’t. But I know exactly what she is hiding. She doesn’t want to give me the communication between her and her boyfriend dating back to the start of it. She knows that would completely unravel her entire web of lies. Again, let put it out there. I’m game.