New Year already in tears pt. 2 in Torridaussity Two
- Jan. 7, 2020, 7:56 p.m.
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So part two will be family issues
My dad in general is in pretty good health, but did give us a scare in August when he got out of his car and collapsed. Thankfully it was just dehydration. We want him to get hearing aids, but he still says nay. He is taking care of my mom as her health just doesn’t seem to get better. She is in constant pain and has tried to many things. She has begun medical marijuana and we are waiting to see if any form of that will help before trying a surgically placed pain pump. Her pain makes me cry and ache to want to help her and there is nothing I can do other than help her and my dad when I can and keep praying and offering suggestions to help.
My brother called me at 7:30 am new years day and was part of why I was crying. He has been unemployed for over a year not for lack of trying and in October his long time gf whom he wanted to marry and have kids with and have forever with said it was over that she had to work on herself and couldn’t be in a relationship with anyone. He is broken, I have never seen him this way and he just is beside himself. Partly because she is still constantly messaging him that she loves him, misses him, can’t sleep because he isn’t next to her. After 6 years she told him it was over through TEXT! He has been trying to see her in person to end things or talk them out whatever you want to say and she keeps making excuses. He called me that morning because a mutual friend sent him a screen shot of snap that she seemed to be with a new dude new years eve and he literally said he was dead and I was afraid of what he would do because he was drunk. Thankfully he didn’t do anything stupid partly because I talked him out of it, but my heart hurts so much for what he is going through. Again another situation where I can’t fix it and I want to.
That is pretty much everything with my immediate family. My aunt is going downhill with her memory and may not be able to live alone much longer and that will be sad. The rest of my family is doing pretty well.
thanks for reading. Part three will come soon and it will be about my health issues.
Deleted user ⋅ January 07, 2020
I'm so sorry about your mom. I really do hope that the marijuana helps. I sincerely believe in it for pain management and CBD/hemp oil is amazing too with inflammation that also contributes to pain <3
I'm glad your dad is ok.
I'm sorry about your brother. What a horrible time for him, it's one thing for a relationship to end, but so disrespectfully by text and then to find out the betrayal while she strings him along, that's just low. So super low :( Sending you all big hugs.
Always Laughing Deleted user ⋅ January 07, 2020
Thank you so much hugs back
Shattered ⋅ January 07, 2020
Wow... sending lots of hugs and prayers for peace and healing for your family.
Always Laughing Shattered ⋅ January 07, 2020
Thank you ❤
Small Town Girl ⋅ January 10, 2020
How awful! She dumped him over text? That is just childish and cruel beyond words. Then to give false hope with the texts about missing him? I hate people like her. Yuck! Definitely hurts for your brother though.
What ails your mom that her pain is so bad? Keep us posted if she sees any relief from the medical pot. We have been trying to get my dad to try it, but he refuses because he is 100% against it making it legal.