Update in Torridaussity Two

  • March 18, 2014, 6:31 p.m.
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Just a bit of an update. First things first I did write good bye to my friend. I couldn't stand the thought of calling him and him not answering or writing and not hearing back, but I would've chosen option B, but he posted a good bye status on facebook so I told him there and then I didn't feel like I needed a response and I got to say good bye and he did like my comment so I feel in a way maybe one day in the future we will be okay. I was a little obsessive and I checked he didn't take the time to like everyone's comment so that gives me hope. 2nd update....grandpa was moved from the hospital to a nursing home/rehab facility. He needs to regain his strength in his legs to go home. They also found out he has an aortic valve blockage and if he doesn't have surgery he will one day just suddenly die. He is 92 and the chances of him suddenly dying are up there anyway so he may not have the surgery. Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers. 3rd...I have started talking to a guy, he's 43 ten years older than me. He has a 10 year old son. So far we are just texting, called once on the phone and chatting online and he seems really nice, normal, and not a perv. I have my reservations because he says he wants to remarry someday and I haven't asked him if that would include having more kids. If I find the right person to marry I would like to have a family of my own. I am 33 and so I don't want to wait forever. Also he is divorced and I don't know the issues that caused it just that he divorced around the time his son was born. So anyway that's about it, still haven't seen the doctor, but my flare is settling down so I am holding off to see if it stays mild. Take care all and may your lives be filled with blessings of love, joy, and peace.


Deleted user March 18, 2014

First off, prayers for your Grandfather <3 He sounds like a strong man! I would still call your friend and just say I care for you so much, let's get back on track - that has always worked for me. The new guy sounds cool, do you guys know what you both look like?

Always Laughing Deleted user ⋅ March 18, 2014

Thanks for the prayers, I will call I am just going to let a little more time pass. Yes we both have seen each other's pictures on our dating profiles.

Deleted user March 19, 2014

Thinking of your grandpa.

I am glad that your friend acknowledged your message to him on FB.

Am very intrigued about this fellow. 10 years isn't that huge of a gap. Divorce could be for any reason, it may not have anything to do with his personal flaws but just a lack of connection or who knows. I am sure in time he will talk about it and you will be able to gauge his personality and get a general vibe about him.

Always Laughing Deleted user ⋅ March 20, 2014

I am slowly getting to know him and so far out of the guys who've contacted me on the dating site, he is by far the sweetest and nicest one. He hasn't pushed any boundaries, he respects my wishes, and he actually compliments me. The last guy was already to cuddle and hang out for the first date, but not once did he ever give me a compliment and I am not a vain person, quite the opposite, but it's nice to hear that you are sweet or cute or funny. Something to let the person know you are interested in them and not just getting down to the physical stuff. I will def keep everyone updated. We have a tentative first date planned for next weekend.

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