He didn't say a word in Torridaussity Two
- Feb. 15, 2016, 8:40 p.m.
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So in my last entry I shared the picture of the painting I did for the one I wanted to be my valentine. I could only send a picture of it and I sent it on FB messenger first and then a picture of me. His response was “F*ck you look hot” not one word about the painting I did. I can’t complain that he thought I looked hot in my picture, but not one word about the painting. I am hurt and saddened that he didn’t acknowledge it at all. I didn’t respond to his comment. Sometimes I wonder why I love someone who doesn’t love me back.
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Leanne 🌈 ⋅ February 15, 2016
I agree with the comment above indeed you need someone who is gonna treat ya right. Hugs.
Always Laughing Leanne 🌈 ⋅ February 16, 2016
Thanks :-)
Reading_Blankie 📚 ⋅ February 15, 2016
I'm sorry. Agreed with the notes above. What an ass. Don't respond to his message either.
I went out with a guy like this one. Didn't last long because I finally wised up!
Always Laughing Reading_Blankie 📚 ⋅ February 16, 2016
Thanks for the support, it just sucks because we have been friends for so long and I just ended up falling for him and always knew he prb would never feel the same.
LotusButterfly ⋅ February 16, 2016
Hm. Why didn't you ask him what he thought of the pic, though? Direct the attention to it? Although yes, maybe that would be weird. How long have u been in contact with him? How did u "meet"? I just hate to cut ties so quickly, I see the point of the other noters, and maybe I should be saying the same but... I don't know. I feel I need more information to know the dynamic of your friendship or whatever.
Always Laughing LotusButterfly ⋅ February 16, 2016
We have been friends for 6 years, he is from Ireland we met on an app on FB to meet new people. I have known my feelings are more one sided on the love side. He finds me sexy and pretty and flirts with me and I flirt back and I am the one who fell for him as more than a friend. I was just hurt because even as a friend I thought he would say something. I do want to ask him, but thought maybe if given time he might on his own. Someone suggested I just say what did you think of the painting and see what he says. There is a chance if he was on FB messenger that it didn't show up right in the window and he only saw the second one.
Lady of the Bann ⋅ February 16, 2016
Have you actually met him? It is easy to build up a romantic picture of someone you meet online. Believe me I know. I had a beautiful friendship with a guy in Australia. He did me a favour. He made me realise I was worthy of more than I had before. He made me feel beautiful and intelligent . We met on Open Diary and wrote poetry to each other. All very sweet and innocent. We planned to meet but then realised he couldn't (leave his wife). I would advice you to examine whether knowing him makes you feel better about yourself, makes you happy, and are getting anything out of the relationship.
Always Laughing Lady of the Bann ⋅ February 16, 2016
No we haven't and yes I know I don't know for sure if this is true love or him being one of the few men in my life who make me forget that I hate the way I look and makes me believe I am pretty. We have been friends for 6 years and I would hate to lose that over something so small especially without knowing for sure if he even saw the picture.
Deleted user ⋅ February 16, 2016
While it's easy to say he's only interested in one thing, cut ties, etc..I've found that most men are completely clueless. He may have noticed the painting but for whatever reason didn't say anything about it. Maybe he didn't realize how important it was to you to hear him say something? Best thing to do is let him know how you felt, because he likely doesn't have a clue.
Always Laughing Deleted user ⋅ February 16, 2016
Part of me thinks this is true, because at times he is one of those clueless men. He is my friend first and foremost I am the one who has feelings for him and I would hate to end a friendship because of something that wasn't meant to be a slight. I guess I just need to get up the nerve to ask him about it and be prepared to be let down if he didn't really care about it and move on, at least then I will know and it will help me let go of some of the in love feelings and focus on the friendship.
Small Town Girl ⋅ February 16, 2016
:(
WomanOfSteele ⋅ February 16, 2016
I can see why you would be hurt after putting so much though and effort into it. :(
It is nice that he though you looked hot... but nice isn't always enough.
Always Laughing WomanOfSteele ⋅ February 16, 2016
you're right sometimes nice just isn't enough
Shattered ⋅ February 16, 2016
(Big big hugs)
Always Laughing Shattered ⋅ February 16, 2016
thanks
Lady of the Bann ⋅ February 19, 2016
Saw this, thought of you. http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/an-open-letter-to-anyone-looking-for-love_b_9247612.html
Cricket ⋅ March 09, 2016
:( hugs
Always Laughing Cricket ⋅ March 09, 2016
hugs to you too