What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel? Depends on what those feeling being expressed actually are but I typically have harder time sharing my deep emotions while looking someone in the eye.
Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?: I was angry at my exhusband because I learned of some things that really frustrated and upset me about... personal things, I guess. He just angered me to no end and the fight ended bitterly between us.
You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them? I call Paco and tell him I love him.
You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?: I wouldn't tell anyone that I was going to die. I would cease working and enjoy every minute I could- really dive into relationships I wanted to cultivate, travel and experience the in-the-moment things. I would certainly see Paco. I think I would be afraid but I think excited. I'm ready to go home, y'know?
You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.: You can't have love without trust.
You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?: I would like to think I'd be all callous and move on but I'd probably try and save the dog, job be damned. I'm just too kind-hearted inside and I can't bear to see that kind of struggle and suffering. It would tear me up if I just walked away.
Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most?: I would rather be hurt by the person I love the most.
Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?: This has happened to me fucking three times in the past two months. I said, "No. I'm sorry. I can't. I'm emotional rubble and have nothing to offer."
Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?: No.
Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?: Yes.
Does love = sex?: No.
Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?: THIS just happened to me- getting laid off for that exact reason. I think if I was on the flip side I would not help like that but I would try and help them find a job if I had the connections.
When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?: A month or so ago, I told Paco some things and it was incredibly difficult. It broke things. I feel resentful a little now because they didn't need to be said. He forced things to that point because he wasn't strong enough to make the break he wanted. Regardless, I should have just swallowed it down and allowed him the space. Whatever. Messy.
What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite/same sex, you love them or that you do not love them back?: That I love them.
What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?: I am unsure. I have so little right now but none of it I place an incredible amount of value on.
Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?: Uhm. Maybe Annie. She's a friend.
If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?: I wouldn't change anything.
Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?: Yes, a homeless person is a person.
You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?: I would save the baby- grandma has already had a full life.
Are you old fashioned?: I like to call myself traditional.
When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?: All day. Every day. My achilles heel.
Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?: True love with the guarantee of a broken heart, please.
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