So my 14 minis are in computer class right now. After this they have drama. Throughout the week they also have reading/writing, music, gym, science, dance, art, and chess. Yes. Chess. And yes they are 5! They are seriously super busy for 5 year olds so while they click away I decided to pop in here and write about my impromptu holiday.
Last night I was talking to the ex. The 1.5 year ex not the ex who thinks I’m a whore. Anyways, we were talking and I was talking about my plans for the weekend (coffee with a friend I haven’t seen in a while and house party) slowly he started getting quiet and giving one word answers. He said he wanted to think so I let him go.
Later he messaged me saying he was sad and Why is nothing good? I called again and we talked about how he is lonely (he’s in another city for work and doesn’t know anyone) I reminded him I will be there in 2 weeks and I can stay a week if he needs me to. He said it’s too far away. I said well do you want me to come in February? Do you wanna be my date for Valentine’s? He said yes please. So he looked at plane tickets and since we were on video call he was able to share his screen. I said those dates are this weekend. He said please can you come?
I have never seen him so sad and unhappy. I said of course if you need me I’ll be there. So after a quick check with my roommate for dog baby sitting plane tickets were bought and I’ll leave after work for a short flight to another city for the weekend.
Everyone has said that they think he wants to get back together. All of his words have said no but his actions have said yes. I told him I would no longer pursue him he knows my feelings and I am ok with our current situation. For now.
Right now I’m really happy to get out of Istanbul for the weekend. And to spend time with a really great person.
We have changed so much. Actually I have. My stress free drama free attitude has helped our friendship get much stronger. We have discussions now and and disagreements and solved with a talk and mutual understanding. Previously it was just screaming and arguing. I don’t know what the future holds for us. But I do know I am happy for what it is right now.
Have a great weekend everyone! Photos next time!
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