So I guess when in last wrote I was about to go to konya to visit my ex since he was lonely. I went and we had a lot of fun but Konya is so boring. We talked about us a few times and agreed to not be in a relationship but the sex is good as long as we are exclusive about that. Our mutual friend said that he told him we were together again. This is news to me! But some recent events have made me re think the situation. I’ll get to that.
When I got back from the weekend trip there was a short week at school before semester break. On Friday my friends and I went out for a Turkish dinner with fish meze and alcohol. We were 8 people in total and had a really great time. After dinner 3 of us went to another bar for a few more drinks. 2 of the waiters were talking to me a lot. The foreign girl who speaks Turkish. One was super friendly and the other was more shy but asked me to teach him English. I told him I was lazy but maybe in summer I could do it. I ended up adding him on facebook.
When I got home I saw that he had messaged me saying it was nice to meet me and he was really happy we met. I was drunk and sleepy and it was 3 am. The next morning I saw he had liked a few of my photos and posts so I sent him a message about that and we chatted a little. He is quite handsome and speaks zero English.
We decided to meet for coffee on Sunday. It was a really nice day. We walked along the seaside and attempted to talk. Thankfully Google translate exists! We went to a restaurant he used to work at and got tea and dessert. His old manager told me to teach him English. Really nice time. Eventually he had to go to work. We did kiss goodbye and he was upset I was going away for 1.5 weeks.
He is definitely a charmer and knows the right words to say. I really don’t think he is looking for any sort of commitment just a good time. This is pretty typical of some turkish men. (Obviously not all of them) after our sweet kiss goodbye I went to meet with my friends and we had dinner. Then went home. I got home around 9pm and had to start packing since I had to leave at 3 am for my flight I got a message from the guy saying please I want to see you again before you go. I had to go to the area he works at to get a bus to the airport at 4am so I decided to finish packing and eat something then go earlier when he finished work. So around 1am I hopped in a taxi to meet him.
I went to the bar he works at and the other guy recognized me and gave me a hug. I sat down to wait for them to close up the bar. He kept talking to me and the guy I was there to see was getting upset about it. The guy asked for my phone number and I declined and said no I have a boyfriend. I told this to him after and he said I know I heard him. I said you were my girlfriend and to leave you alone.
So fuck long story short. Errr or long story conclusion ;) he’s handsome and sweet and it’s interesting and different and fun. Probably he is just looking for sex but I really don’t know what I want anymore. I don’t know what will happen with him. Or with my ex. I guess only time will tell.
Right now I am in the beautiful city of kapadokya. I am here for 4 days with my friend and his girlfriend. Not an ideal situation but I am making the best of it. I want to travel to one more city before I go to konya but I haven’t decided yet. I’ll update later :)
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