We sold a ladder holder thing for $150. I told him we gotta start getting serious about getting everything gone. We went to a place my daughter has been begging me to go since last Summer, We got pictures and I met a famous person AND got a picture!!!
It’s currently raining and was raining on our way home. My boyfriend stopped and got the chocolates I wanted. I’m glad to be back home.
I checked the mail and there was the letter from the courts stating that his parenting time was denied. I don’t know if he got it or not because it went to the place he was previously staying. I sent a picture of it to his ex and she asked if he knew. He was in the courtroom when the judge said it was denied! WTF! I told her all of this the other day after court! Either she’s really fucking stupid or doesn’t pay attention.
I wonder what his girlfriend thinks. First she has to take him to meet me at the Sheriff’s Office to pick her up and then we had court. I wonder if he told her the truth to get attention or told her some off the wall bullshit. It’s hard to gauge because he’s only ever honest when he has to be. I know if I was with someone who got denied parenting time with their OWN CHILD, there is no way in HELL they would be around mine!
It’s pretty telling to be denied time with your own child. You have to be top level piece of shit! I definitely didn’t see the judge giving him any type of custody because he’s so unstable but I’m still shocked that it was denied completely! I’ve always been told that he would get some kind of time and he definitely didn’t. I really hope that he takes time to figure out his life. He probably won’t though, he’ll just pray that he can keep finding a free place to stay. This has been what he’s done his entire life and I know that’s not going to change. He’s too far behind in CS to ever get his license, doesn’t keep jobs and does everything he can to avoid paying bills.
I know that he feels like I “won” but I don’t feel like that at all. I feel that I advocated for my daughter and I’m keeping her from dealing with instability every other week and shared holidays. I don’t want her growing up dealing with poverty and bullshit like I did and if I can keep her from experiencing that than that’s what I’m going to do. It’s not her fault that he’s made poor choices and I don’t want her to suffer for him being this way. I know that I can’t protect her from everything forever but I’m going to for as long as I’m able.
My brother always said that I need to let her go so she can see what kind of person he is. Well, she isn’t just seeing that he’s a liar and trying to turn her against me, but that she has nowhere to sleep, nothing to eat, and is with him relying on others for transportation. I understand that everyone wants things to be fair to BD but at some point you have to realize that an innocent child is dealing with more than they need to.
Again, I’m all about being fair and that’s why I’ve allowed all the shit I have but now that I know I’m within my rights to not allow it anymore, than I’m not going to. The judge denied his parenting time for SEVERAL reasons and I’m going to keep my daughter safe.
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