Ya’ll!!! So BD text me saying he’s got some bad news about his living situation. I sent the invite on the app again and we’ve been talking on there. Okay so I want to preface this by saying he’s known ALL ALONG that he couldn’t stay where he is indefinitely unless he got custody or 50/50. Well he’s been there almost 6 months and has to live on Monday, the day before we have court. He thought by filing for visitation that he would get either custody or 50/50 but even if he did, he could only stay there another 6 months!!
He thought by filing for visitation, he was going to help himself stay there long term and that’s not going to happen. I’m not giving him any kind of custody, especially knowing it’s just to help him stay there or get a free apartment! He’s all for himself and always has been!
I don’t want this to come off mean or anything, but he will be homeless the day before we go to court. He thought by taking me to court that it was going to fully benefit him and that’s probably not going to go the way he wants. My daughter has seen NOTHING but instability with him her entire life. Every time she sees him he’s surrounded by different people, in and out of various cars and lives in a different place. I am so fucking sick of this where he thinks he’s entitled to her or her time simply because he’s her Dad! He’s had almost 9 years now to get stable and start being a good person for her and he’s no better now than he was when she was born!
All of this is disheartening and honestly, embarrassing. He’s 41 years old now. It’s too bad all he’s ever done is live off every woman he’s ever known and didn’t bother to work and save money to get himself stable. He should have made better choices and doesn’t see how much all of this has affected me and my daughter. He’s had 6 months rent/utility free so why the fuck has he not saved money to get a place to live? He mentioned to me the other day wanting to take her and buy her clothes and shit and now is saying that he needs to save all his money to get himself somewhere to live.
Again, he’s known all along that his place to stay was temporary and he should’ve been smart and saved his money! He’s telling me he can’t get an apartment because his credit is shit (child support) and can’t afford application fees. He has no friends he can stay with either because he’s burned everyone or they already have a house full. I don’t know what the fuck he’s going to do and I personally don’t fucking care. He’s NEVER cared if my daughter has had a stable home, or food, or a good life.
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