I Had A Nice Surprise... in Me Being Me

When hubby came home from work yesterday he told me not to start dinner because we were going to order out and it was my choice. So I picked chinese and it was good and not much left overs. So for dinner tonight I am going to be making hambergers and French Fries and canned corn.
Hubby is so thoughtful all the time and is always thinking about me and what he can do to make me happy. He is definatly a keeper.
I asked him if I should tell the landlady if the reason I am always cold and too hot because of my medication. He said No I shouldn’t tell her. I am still trying to figure out why he said that but I am thinking because it’s really none of her business. But on the other hand if I did tell her maybe she would have the heat at a better tempature in the early morning when I get up or wake up the many times I do.
Do you think I should tell her? I am thinking because she has somewhat of a medicle degree she should have figured it out by now. But for now I don’t think I will say anything. But if she becomes more mean and keeps threating me maybe I will.
This not dealing with her is really a good thing. But it’s hard when she starts talking to me when I am taking the garbage out or getting my mail. So I am just as polite as I can be and then I just go on my way. But with hubby taking the rent to her it’s always late because she needs to have it by noon and because he works it has to be a day when he isn’t working. But then she could come and get it. I use to give her the rent a week before it’s due but not anymore. She never appreciated that and very rarely said thank you so I don’t wan tto give her anything anymore and I don’t want to ask for anything to be fixed. The only time things will get fixed is when it becomes a real danger and then it will be more expensive because she didn’t think it was a big deal when it was a minor fix.

Onto something else…

Yesterday I did manage to get some laundry done so now I just have like three more laods to do so that isn’t too much and will only take a few hours to do.
And as far as today goes, not much is going to happen…Hubby will be watching hockey and I will be waitng for my amazon order. And I am sort of itching to do a grocery order for the fruit and vegetables we need but that might have to wait. I will mention it to hubby and see what he says. And yes it will be on my dime.
I often feel like I don’t do much but hubby tells me I do a lot and he appreciates everything I do. But I would do more if I felt like I have a home but instead I just pay rent. it’s a horrible feeling because I always feel so defeated because I can’t make my space feel like a home. I have art work that could be put up in every room so the place would add some color but the land lady said only one or two can go up. I have art work for every wall but I can’t hang them up and I feel like I am in a padded room all the time. And the way the air circulates here I can never have a window open because it will wreak the air flow.

I think I am going to stop here…
Hope you have a great day…
Be Kind, Be Calm, Be Safe, and Behave.

Last updated March 26, 2023