Why... in Help Me Please
Revised: 01/11/2023 8:56 a.m.
- Jan. 11, 2023, 3 a.m.
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Why is it people write here and don’t leave notes for others? Is this one of those places that we write for ourselves or are we too busy to read and leave notes for others?
I have noticed that I don’t get very many notes and some days I get none. But I do see people write so I am wondering do you read me and just have nothing to say to me?
Don’t get me wrong I do get some notes but they are very few and I always wonder if it’s something I said or didn’t say? or you just don’t care and I don’t deserve a response?
Here is another question for you? When you write your entries do you read others and not say anything? Like right now I see that 8 people have writen entores but I have no comments. So did you 8 people read me and said nothing because I am boring or there is just nothing to say?
Onto something else…
I have a feeling that there is something very wrong with the program for the heat because it’s been anywhere from 68 tp 72 and I am feeling that it’s a bit hot sometimes during the day. But I don’t dare say anything because then I will be freezing. And waking up to 68 is really nice and I don’t feel cold. But when the idiot landlady comes back in March she will have a major heart atatck because of the cost of the gas and electricity. But I told her to just leave the tempature at one setting and in the long run it will be cheaper but she doesn’t believe me. And turning the heat up and down is not good because the furnace has to work that much harder to get to the final tempature of the day. But then what do I know, I am just a renter who knows nothing....
Onto something else…
I told hubby that I feel like I have lost all control of how to live here and everything I enjoy doing I can’t do or I will get evicted and that scares me so I am always thinking to myself if I do this will I get evicted. And it’s always for the meseseities that I need to do. Like washing dishes in hot water and using hot and warm water and having the heat dry the dishes in the dishwasher and taking hot showers and baths. The only thing so far she hasn’t bitched about tis the hot air for the dryer. I wonder why? Is there anyone in this world that is so cheap that they don’t use hot water or hot air? How much more does it really cost to have these things and use them? And why do we have them if they are so expensive? or are they really?
I also told hubby that I will be evicted for my behaviour and for nothing I actually did that was against the law or she said no to. I have never been evicted from anywhere in my 30 years of renting.
So now that hubby is going top deal with her I don’t have to and she can only come and fix things when he is here and I don’t have to let her in when I am alone. And I will be keeping the door locked after she comes back and if she phones I don’t have to talk to her. I have call display so I know when anyone calls and I will be selecting only those I want and need to talk to.
I wonder if hubby should tell her not to talk to me unless it’s to say hi, how are you?
But she is going to find that it will be a lot harder to get things done here and then maybe she will start to treat me like a person who has some rights and can live how they want. She has no right to tell me to not do what I enjoy and to prevent me from doing things for me like lighting my candles or having extra heat.Or taking a nice hot shower and doing my dishes with nice hot soapy water. And she has no right to tell me to clean this or that.
The less she has to say the better off I am and the less I can deal with her the better I am.
Onto something else…
Anyways I need to start thinking about the rest of the day and what needs to get done. So I will stop here…
Do have a great day…
Be Kind, Be Calm, Be Safe and Behave.
Last updated January 11, 2023
Beret ⋅ January 11, 2023
Day after day after day you come here and gripe and complain about your landlord and living situation. But you don't do anything to try to change your living conditions. So..what more is there for anyone to say to you in a note?
Jodie Beret ⋅ January 11, 2023
Well considering she is on a road trip for three months it's kind of hard to say much to her...But me writing and getting my thoughts out goive me a better way to come up with something that I can be happy with. And for the most part the solutions have come form people who suggested I do things to help me and I thank you all...
Here is a question for you? have you ever been in a situation that you want and need someones input just to hear what they have to say and maybe for a solution?
Anaiss ⋅ January 11, 2023 (edited January 11, 2023)
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Do you leave notes for other people? Leaving notes and showing an interest in what other people write about, is a two way street. I don't leave very many notes for people who don't leave me any notes. And I don't mean notes asking questions, I mean just nice notes commenting on what I wrote about.
Jodie Anaiss ⋅ January 11, 2023
If I see that you have written something then the chances of me reading and esponding is much better..but it's hard to say mush when people don't write often.
Anaiss Jodie ⋅ January 11, 2023
I write almost every day. I think I've had maybe one or two notes from you but they didn't really comment on anything I wrote.
Jodie Anaiss ⋅ January 11, 2023
Do you put your entries on private? because the only newest one I see is from November 2022?
Anaiss Jodie ⋅ January 11, 2023
Well I apologize. I did not have you as a "friend". I've updated that, so you should be able to see all of my entries!
Jodie Anaiss ⋅ January 11, 2023
Thanks I appreciate that....
sadandlonelygirl ⋅ January 11, 2023 (edited January 11, 2023)
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I actually enjoy that aspect of this site that I can share my feelings to the public and read about other people's personal lives without a lot of expectations and obligations to interact, unlike other social media.
Jodie sadandlonelygirl ⋅ January 11, 2023
Me also...
toddslife ⋅ January 11, 2023
i read every day
Jodie toddslife ⋅ January 11, 2023
I read you to when you type...
crystal butterfly ⋅ January 11, 2023
I read you but don't note much.
Jodie crystal butterfly ⋅ January 11, 2023
I don't know if you know this but way back I use to read you all the time and still do enjoy what your type and say...you are one of my favorites.
crystal butterfly Jodie ⋅ January 12, 2023
I read you on OD and that is why I started following you here!
Jodie crystal butterfly ⋅ January 12, 2023
cool....
I have heard that a lot of people quit OD for one reason or another..that is really sad because once upon a time it was one of the better journalling sites.
crystal butterfly Jodie ⋅ January 12, 2023
The guy shut it down. He has since started it again, but has no record that I was a lifetime member so I didn't go back. I also wondered how long it would be before he got tired of it again. Hopefully PB never goes under.
Jodie crystal butterfly ⋅ January 12, 2023
Well with the way Josh's work ethic is I don't think so because when we have issues he fixes them right away and he communicates to you to make sure he understands what we are having issues with. Like when he asked if we saw panada bears and told us there was a problem and it was being fixed that day and the site might be off line. And he isn't money hungry and wanting to rip us off. When I can afford it I will be paying yearly.