Fear in Weight Loss Surgery

A vlogger mentioned that anything we consider important in our lives is only important because we fear losing it. And fear of losing “it” pushes it away and then yes, you may lose it.
If you’re detached from losing it, it draws it in. Like playing hard to get.

I don’t imagine that a mom is gonna detach from her kid to not fear losing it cause of course people are afraid of losing loved one.

But they mean more like items, like that job, car, TV, etc. Some people put out a really desperate energy for a certain objects.

For example it’s the same like a really desperate guy who wants you soooooo bad so he calls and texts and compliments and sends presents and hounds and smothers and often turns his lady off and pushes her away because of the pure desperation he exudes.
Meanwhile a more relaxed guy who obvious shows he likes you but doesn’t act like he would DIE without you, draws you in.

But it’s hard cause there’s things I reallllllly want - like this surgery and a house basically. So it’s hard to act like I don’t want it, or like it isn’t important, or like I don’t feel like I’ll never get it.

But I can say I’m ok with what I have no. I do love my apartment and I can appreciate my current body and if I never get a slimmer body or a free standing house I’m not gonna DIIIIIE but still I’d like it, you know.

And I believe I will get those things I’m just impatient although at my age I don’t think I’m being impatient cause other people have already had it…

But every since I’ve been interested in this surgery the house dream is on hold. So maybe I’ll revisit this after the surgery.

I fully believe I’m getting this surgery next year - and then I’ll get back to the house desire.

Last updated December 20, 2020