What?? in My Life

I just got an email from G asking if "you would be amenable to going away for a weekend just the 2 of us." Um, first of all, amenable? Let's talk normally. Second of all, did we attend the same session Monday? Too little too late. No, that's actually the LAST thing in the entire world I want to do. I don't even want to go to dinner, because we have.nothing.to.talk.about! I'm just sitting here, frozen, not wanting to be mean in my response but knowing when I say no, he's going to (again, I guess) say I'm not trying and blame me. I tried for 8 years...and the last 2 I've just slowly shut it all down as I realized the things I used to get from the marriage no longer existed and the man I used to love transformed into someone I don't even really like. <sigh> WTF....