At Some Point in Book Six: Trying to Hold On 2019
- Sept. 8, 2019, 3:57 a.m.
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So… Wife and I had Date Night last night. Significantly delayed because Wife wanted to get her homework done. At Date Night, very little conversation. After Date Night, very little interaction. So… Today? I’m going to work up the courage to give her The Survey. The survey asks things like “Does sex matter to you?” and “How would you define marriage as an abstract concept?” Because frankly? I spent 3 years of No Sex with my wife.... and since then, it has been a rare pleasure.... to the point where the last time I had sex this year was March. Since then? My birthday (May), her birthday (June), our anniversary (July) have all passed without so much as a good snog. So… it is time. I am going to sit her down and giver her some bloody straight talk.
DO YOU WANT TO BE MARRIED?
DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS?
HAVE YOU ANY SEXUAL IMPULSES?
DO YOU ACCEPT THAT SEXUAL ABSTINENCE IS NOT ACCEPTABLE TO YOUR HUSBAND?
And other matters.
Silver Thread ⋅ September 08, 2019
Conversation is a great start! Hope it all works out for you!
Anaiss ⋅ September 08, 2019
You are becoming more and more sure of yourself and what you want, and more honest about the current situation, and I think it's a good time for you to start confronting wife. It might have good results. She seems to need a good kick in the pants to wake her up.
AppleGirl Anaiss ⋅ September 08, 2019
Yes, this.
Deleted user ⋅ September 08, 2019
Good... I want that survey
hippiechica15 ⋅ September 08, 2019
Good luck!
Always Laughing ⋅ September 08, 2019
Hope it helps
Purple Dawn ⋅ September 08, 2019
Maybe she really doesn't have any sexual urges. Can't you get the female version of something like viagra? Sorry, not trying to make light of the situation but maybe it is something like that? I dunno. Take care,