Pix 8/8 in Book Six: Trying to Hold On 2019
- Aug. 8, 2019, 10:35 p.m.
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Well, if you don’t get the Sexual Assault of a Minor bad news in the morning, you get the Sexual Assault of a Minor bad news in the afternoon. Our Defendant born in 1998 (21 years old) has a laundry list of girlfriends who were born in 2006 (13 years old). All of whom refuse to testify because “he’s okay” despite the fact that all of them are upset that he’s “been cheating on them.” I really hate to be the asshole here because honestly… if this were a guy born in 1950 and a woman born in 1958? I wouldn’t have any problem with their relationship! (That is Ron Pearlman dating Michelle Pfeiffer.) And it isn’t a gender thing either. Let’s say it was a woman born in 1980 dating a man born in 1988! (That is Kristen Bell dating Michael Cera). But that in itself can be the problem. Essentially, I am trying to tell 13 year old girls that having sex with their 21 year old boyfriend is a crime because as a 21 year old man… he’s manipulating all of you for his creepy lolita little girl fetish. In other words, he’s targeting you… manipulating you into feeling “special” so that he can then have sex with you. Often supplying alcohol or drugs to you in connection to assist with his scheme of getting you into bed. However the 13 year old girls, as they sometimes do, are adamant in saying that they are old enough to make their own decisions, run their own lives, and have sex with whomever they want to! Thus… the frustration and difficulty. Because… sorry, little girl but if you still ride the bus to school or need to pedal your bicycle to class? You should not be fucking someone who can buy beer legally! And if I need to explain that to you, it is proving my point!! It isn’t a crime for a 16 year old to have sex with a 13 year old… but I think many people in society wouldn’t be too thrilled with it. Because there are certain truths to age in your teenage years. And of course teenagers think “fuck that” but.... yeah! If you’re 13, you are NOT old enough to be making the Adult Sex Decisions that could land you with a 12 year old child by the time you’re old enough to rent a car! #SorryNotSorry Seriously. Wait until you’re 16 and can drive somewhere to have sex with a boy legally. Or wait until you’re 18 so you can live wherever the fuck you want to have sex with a fellow adult legally. Or wait until you’re 21 and can toast to your first time.
Because, since this is the picture entry, lets look at it this way. RIGHT NOW the situation is
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When if you waited until you were 16, it could be more like this
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Okay… bad example. How about maybe…
When if you waited until you were 18, it could be more like this
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Okay. No, I still kind of… have weird feelings about that. What about 21
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Okay. It isn’t PLEASANT for me to see Dog with a Blog Star with Liam Hemsworth for creepy personal reasons.... but at least I’m okay with it by AGE gap. So… yeah. While 16 and older is legal in Iowa (so, I won’t apologize for prosecuting the 21 year old with a laundry list of 13 year old girlfriends)… I at least know that I’m really not okay with “large” age gaps until both people reach their 20s. Which when you consider it rationally… makes sense. Your teen years are a hormonal powder keg of crazy!
Now to the Chive Part. And I do have to say… I acknowledge that my Picture Galleries of late have been offending people and upsetting people. Particularly and exclusively the sharing of “girly photos.” To that… I kind of just throw my hands up. What I am doing, whether girly photos or memes or screen caps or whatever… is I am pulling up TheChive.com each day. Selecting all of the galleries that I have not looked through, going through those galleries to see what images jump out or appeal to me and can be easily shared on Prosebox… then I share them. That’s all. And I can understand people being upset with “Girly Photos” I honestly can. You see it as objectifying. You see it as offensive. You see it as something that makes you feel bad about your own appearance. Or something that I haven’t even guessed at. I understand. BUT that is also one of the reasons I have begun separating them from my primary entries. So that you don’t feel you HAVE to look at these and be upset or offended. Seriously. I may be making a choice to post this but if the very act of me posting to Prosebox what has already been posted to TheChive is the offense for which I must answer… that seems strange. Unless you believe that the dissemination of any and all photographs that depict the human form in an alluring or sexually gratifying way is offensive. And if you believe that, then I can truly say we disagree on the principle fundamentally.
Diana of the hunt ⋅ August 08, 2019
You know, I appreciate your thoughtful, insightful, intelligent writing about your work, but I really don’t care to see photos of fake, tatted-up, big-titted young women with their manipulative come-hither looks. I don’t care to know what gives you a woody.
Perpetually Plump Diana of the hunt ⋅ August 09, 2019
Bingo!!!!
AppleGirl ⋅ August 09, 2019
I guess for me, it’s more about the fact that I’m scrolling through reading about your day and even seeing some funny memes, etc - then all the sudden, pics of half naked girls. I am a girl - I don’t need to see half naked girls. I just know now when any pictures start that I’m done reading that particular entry.
Perpetually Plump ⋅ August 09, 2019
I am not offended by the pictures themselves, and they don't make me feel even slightly bad about myself. In fact, they make me feel relieved I am not required to put that much effort into being someone's jerk off material. Part of what's offensive is your commentary and degredation in regards to these women. You actually described them as possibly innocent. It's gross to think you are turned on by (and actually believe that women with fake breasts, mostly naked, posed provocatively and sharing their pictures in exchange for money could be innocent. Plus, innocence is often associated with young women who are inexperienced virgins, so that's pretty creepy, too. Another issue is the amount of effort you put into finding and sharing and analyzing these photos. Why not spend this time working out. Reading self helps books. Socializing with wife. Thinking about wife. Jerking off to wife. Why put this much sexual energy into other women who aren't wife? It's creepy to stalk the internet for hundreds of attractive women. I watch porn, and I masturbate, but I don't spend more than a few minutes at a time finding and watching porn. I definitely don't spend time finding sexy men. Fortunately, I think my boyfriend is very attractive and handsome and sexy, and I often think about him during my own sexy times. If I found out my boyfriend was putting this much energy into other women, I'd want him to seek counseling...
Purple Dawn ⋅ August 09, 2019
I usually just stop reading the entry when I see pics you post. It's your diary, if they are important to you I don't see an issue with you posting them. I don't have to look :)
Rhapsody in Purple ⋅ August 12, 2019
I did jury duty once where a 21 years had unlawful carnal knowledge of a 12 year old. It was not fun. She had no problem with it at all. Very confronting. Another guy in the jury had a 12 year old daughter and he was very upset about it. I don’t even know what I would do if my child at that age was making choices like that. But how much of it is a choice. They are being manipulated by a man with more life experience. But who wants to hear that.