Stupid in just testing
- Feb. 18, 2014, 10:03 p.m.
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Saturday was a fine day.
Will's cousin turned 2. We went to his birthday. Multiple family members asked me when it would be my turn.
His father actually told me he only has a few years left and doesn't want to miss his grandchild.
Sunday morning I emailed Will's sis to say kids probably won't happen. And I wanted it out in the open so his family didn't feel led on.
I told them we simply can't afford a child. And surprisingly they are OK with it. They supported us being responsible.
In other news, Will's best friend just had a kid and wanted us to be God parents. So we accepted, met the kid and went to fuddruckers which is a kid friendly burger & milkshake place.
The girl he's with its 22 yrs old. 2 kids, unmarried and so she gets discounted rent, free child care, free baby supplies (like formula) and a free pass to not show up to work (a restaurant) on any snow day cause she knows they can't fire her since she has 2 kids under 3.
Even tho she's living with Will's best friend and has 2 incomes they're not married so they don't file taxes together.
She is getting a $ 10, 000 refund.
I'm a little bitter that I did everything the "right " way and will never have a family and she can pump out as many kids as she likes and everything is taken care of.
But she's a nice person and so are her kids so I'm now a God mother.
Monday was a good day too. My sis and her hubby came to my parents house and it was a lot of fun.
Until I asked my father to look at auto insurance rates.
I know I over pay and we found a cheaper one. Because I'm married, they wanted Will's info. When I called him for it he flipped the fuck out cause he listed himself as single. Now he's connected to a 3rd car and my driving record which isn't 'bad ' but I have had accidents and maybe 2 tickets so her assumes his rates are gonna go out.
He's already freaking out about the health care cost.
I feel like telling him to cancel and I'll just get on my schools one by myself. It's not like he goes to the doctor ever anyway.
So we fought basically cause I didn't know he was LYING.
Of course when I got up at 5 AM her said sorry.
I'm whatever about it.
I knew he'd apologize but the fight shouldn't of happened. I didn't know he wanted me to say single, nor should I have to lie. This was not my fault but I don't think her gets that.
I haven't spoken to him all day.
It takes me time to get over our fights. I'm so over all our stupid fights anyway.
lessoff ⋅ February 19, 2014
usually when you get married your rates go down. the accidents only stay on your record for 3 or 5 years (i cant remember now). same with tickets.
when rob and i got married i tried to switch us to Erie insurance, they refused to take him. LOL. but i think that one doesnt take anyone that has any offenses (rob got pulled over for something a few years ago) and it was my aunt's new husband selling me this insurance, so i was like nope not switching just myself. but we have progressive, which is actually 9 bucks cheaper than my single car rate and that includes rob car too. but i know jersey is a bit different with everything.