Girls...Stupid Girls... in Random Public Stuffs

Back to my fucked up self! Fuck Influenza A! Back to 98%!! Anywho. This will bring out some keyboard warriors, but whatever.

I went to Fakebook war with a stupid female and her ass-licking friends.

First, my thoughts.

I fully believe that everyone has the right to their opinion.

I fully believe that people are different; they have had different cultures that have shaped them into who they are.

On the other hand....

Your opinion doesn’t mean its the “right” one or “only” one.

Don’t start none, won’t be none.

First, a bit of background on myself and my upbringing.

I get that some females want to live in their cultural “traditional” roles. As an Indigenous person, women were held in high regard. We have a say in our “government”. We have women who serve in those roles. That was never questioned. Us women were taught to help fashion hunting weapons, some tribes even had women go on the hunt. We cut the animals down for food and made sure to use just about everything the animal provided. We helped create our homes and were also taught to defend them. Many tribes are different, but I am speaking for my own tribe and experiences.

That doesn’t mean we weren’t revered. As the ones who nurture life and bring it into this world, we were protected. Men would be on the front lines when moving camps.

So, our “roles” were not the same roles of many Caucasian cultures, where women were supposed to sit still, and look pretty. “Seen, but not heard.” Women weren’t allowed to have a voice until the 1920’s-30’s....ish. From what I’ve read in history books, Caucasian women weren’t allowed to have resources. They were solely dependent on their husbands.

So, this girl posted how she was all for the “traditional role”…that’s cool. As long as she is happy. If it works for her, that’s great.

THEN…then she brought up abortion in a passive-aggressive way.

Again, to each their own. However, if you post something publicly like that, there WILL be people who disagree. I am one of them.

I wrote that no one has ANY say over my body. I was not brought up to need a man to validate my existence. I understood that MY culture and life experiences are vastly different (and better) than hers.

First, there was the religious argument, but I pointed out that my life is more important than the cells growing within me.

Now, to clarify, I have children. I also had a stillborn son that I buried on Christmas Eve of 1999. I have nothing against offspring but I can’t stand most kids today because they don’t know how to behave, their shit parents don’t parent, etc.

So, I had some keyboard warrior bring up “science” about “life at conception”. Well, last I knew....it was two cells to four to eight, etc. So…those cells don’t have any sort of consciousness. Not yet.

I’m all for science. But when I shut down the whining by telling them that the ABSOLUTE, IRREFUTABLE, BRUTAL TRUTH is MY life is always going to be more important? I could hear the bitching through my Facebook app.

No matter what, it was ME who changed my lifestyle to help those cells grow. It was ME who ate to fuel those cells. It was ME experiencing discomfort, pain, and hormonal mood swings to help these cells evolve into a human being. I carried that child. That clump of cells turned into a baby that still would not SURVIVE outside of my womb until a certain point of development and there was a team of specialists on standby with the best equipment. If I died, unless that baby was grown enough to stand a fighting chance with a lot of help, that baby is not making it either.

Even doing EVERYTHING “right”, my first pregnancy, with good prenatal care…I lost my son.

I had a lot of health problems with my second son, he was preemie. We share a birthday and I spent our first birthday together giving him CPR because he had RSV and stopped breathing. Despite ALL that, he is strong, healthy, and so much more.

Circumstances will always be different for every woman.

But to try to tell me that my life isn’t my choice…I shut that down right away.

So, they did the typical dumb cunt shit, crying around with, “You’re just a bully. You can’t back that up. That’s an opinion and its wrong.”

I don’t care that those females ranged between the ages of 25 to 55, they are dumb girls who ended up being even dumber cunts. THEY are the reason that real, intelligent, educated, STRONG women have to work that much harder to succeed.

If you want to be Holly Housewife, by all means, I hope you’re happy and I wish you all the best! You go lady!

But don’t shit-talk women who chose a different lifestyle, and don’t talk about feminism being a horrible thing when feminism, REAL feminism, is the reason you get to vote. Real feminism is the reason you get to own property. Real feminism is the reason you get to have your name on a bank account. Its the reason you get to have an education, you get to have a divorce if necessary.

Granted, some stupid bitches take feminism to the wrong extremes. I believe that 100%.

But don’t shit-talk the women who choose to go to work and help with the bills, talking about how a woman should be “happy” in a “traditional role”, because if that’s true, then why the hell are you even trying to express and opinion? In many cultures, that “traditional role” was being barefoot n the kitchen and waiting on your man quietly.

I am all for “agreeing to disagree”. I know I come off blunt.

But, like I told that butthurt girl, if you have a problem with me, that’s all on you, and based on your emotions and insecurities. I don’t expect everyone to agree with me.

What I do expect is enough intelligence to know that when you put opinions out there in THAT manner, don’t be mad or cry like a baby back bitch when you get called out and shut down.

Of course, her ass-licking internet Rambos went into the typical insult mode.

“You’re a horrible person!” Of course I am. I’m honest. That automatically means I’m horrible, because I don’t just take stupid shit like that.

“So what, you hate all men?” No. But, if that makes you feel better, you can think that.

“You’re just throwing a temper tantrum!” Nah, you were the one who got all butthurt and told me to “knock it off”. LOL

And so on, and so forth.

I told that girl, “There is absolutely no way around the truth of a woman being the most important person in life. Ultimately, her life trumps all. But, you’re too fucking stupid to get that through your head, so I leave you to go to Starbucks and trash talk about how I’m an evil person. Bye Sarah.”

I turned off the notifications to that thread after I saw them girls try to get a rise out of me, then went and dealt with the plumbing in my shower. I’m grown and have home repairs to tend to.

I said my piece.

I am all for everyone having their beliefs. However, when you post it publicly and in a disrespectful manner, don’t be surprised when you’re confronted and shut down.

I decided to make an example of the situation and shared the entire interaction on my own Fakebook, along with my own commentary. I left the names of the profiles on, because if you believe in something so much, you better hold yourself accountable and take responsibility for your opinion.

I am open to disagreements, but be a woman, not some fucking dumb little girl. I felt sad for those girls after a few replies. They tried to go into a fight completely unarmed.

Its best they stay home, away from the realities of the world.

I just hope their offspring grow up to be far better people than they are.