Oh Baby! in New reality

My wife and I have been given the opportunity to adopt a baby!.. we wanted to grow our family and now we are.. We are meeting with our baby mom tomorrow! We get to see our little peanut. We dont know much about the pregnancy as the mother isnt sure how far along she is and has never been pregnant before. I’m excited and nervous.. so much so my stomach has been acting up and my mind wont stop.. I also cant sleep.. currently laying next to my softly snoring wife watching soutpark.. I’m so excited and happy, but we arent sure my in laws are going to be on board.. Weve been getting along so well and I dont want to disrupt things.. weve had financial struggles this year and they might not think it’s a smart thing to do.. but we are in a much better spot and working every day to make it better.. and dammit we deserve to be happy and our peanut deserves a loving home. The mother is wonderful and could raise a child if she wanted to.. but shes not ready, it was unexpected, and she never wanted children. She said it feels like she was meant to carry our baby.. I’ve known her most of her life. I cant allow negative thoughts to ruin this for us though.. we deserve this.. we can do this..