Twitter-Like: Sex in Book Four: Ichi-no-Tani 2017
- Nov. 26, 2017, 1:17 p.m.
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The two sexiest phrases in the English Language?
(1) I want you. (need, desire, etc)
(2) Cum in me. (maybe that’s just me)
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I have now taken to the idea that my weight is similar to my wife’s fashion/makeup sense. My wife rarely, if ever, does her makeup in any way. My wife, unlike Aku and Aoife, would never dress up in a certain outfit just to turn me on. Those two things are “too much work.” My wife doesn’t like my size. I am 5‘7 and 210 lbs. She would prefer I lost 60 lbs or so. Try as I may, I can’t get myself back below 200. So… I’ll just chalk this up, as well, to “too much work.”
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The biggest thing, though? Maybe this only happens in cinema and porn but… I’d like to have sex (obviously, with my wife) without my partner having a raging hangover the next day. Because that is the norm. When Wife and I have sex, on the rare occasion, no matter what… it is due to her drinking to excess and then, the next morning, she has a hangover. It is like a formula. Drinking to Excess leads to Sex leads to Hangover. And I get it, don’t lecture me. I understand that in the American Culture for many women sex is considered such a subject that requires Confidence Boosting Liquid Magic etcetera etcetera. I’m just saying that it would be nice if, at some point in my life, I had sex without my partner resorting to getting wasted first.
Key and Collar ⋅ November 26, 2017
Whilst drunk sex can be fun, it shouldn't be the norm :(
Park Row Fallout Key and Collar ⋅ November 29, 2017
Thank you. I agree entirely.
DefyingRules ⋅ November 26, 2017
After the end of one of my relationships, he’d done so much damage to my self esteem, it was a full decade before I could have sex sober, with the lights on, as more than a drunken one or two night stand. It took a long time to recover my self worth and confidence-and it takes a lot of help.
The stories you tell about your wife make me sad for both of you-I hope you both find a way to be whole and healed together. She needs to be able to find her worth and happiness without pulling you and your marriage into an abyss with her.
Park Row Fallout DefyingRules ⋅ November 29, 2017
Thank you. I am often sad for my wife but after a lot of talking about the subject... neither of us can discover a reason for her perspective other than how she feels about her life in general.
DefyingRules Park Row Fallout ⋅ November 29, 2017
I relate to her quite a bit-stuck in a retail job I generally hate but no idea what to do that isn’t retail, feeling not good/smart/qualified enough for anything else. I get the feeling I am generally more optimistic and upbeat in comparison but I feel for her. It’s a hard position to shake when you just don’t know where to go.
Tempestuous1 ⋅ November 26, 2017
Deleted user ⋅ November 28, 2017
Sex after a few drinks and a bit of a buzz is fun, but being that drunk and needing to be every single time isn't good, or normal. Obviously you know that. I know if it were someone I was with it wouldn't make me feel good. Knowing they had to drink like that before having sex. Sorry you're both struggling with that.
Park Row Fallout Deleted user ⋅ November 29, 2017
Thank you. Over the past few years, I've worked hard to not take it personally. To frame it as an issue she is having and it doesn't reflect on me. But, as someone who loves her, it is certainly something I would like to see her get over.
Deleted user ⋅ December 04, 2017
There has to be some problem there that she has no desire to be intimate unless she is inebriated. Hopefully her therapist could work with her on it .