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To write an entry - then I forget everything that's happened!

Well I woke up Monday morning without my wedding ring.

Que PANIC at 6am and even though Will had only come home at 2am I threw on all the lights and started searching the apartment while crying thinking I had lost it somehow.

And what does Will do? Help me? NOPE. He goes into a fit cause he has a cold, he's tired, etc. and he basically doesn't care. So we're fighting, I'm tearing the house apart and he's getting even madder at the mess.

Guess where it was......

MY NIGHTSTAND.

My ring is NOT loose so that means I took it off in the middle of the night.

So while Will's having his fit I find my ring and explain to him that I must of took it off in my sleep and then told him that wit the way he behaves it's no wonder I'm taking my ring off subconsciously!!!

I think that really scared him and he went into an even bigger tantrum to the point that he needed me to get his inhaler.

Speaking of his inhaler - he finally went to the doc. He was fighting tooth and nail till the very moment of the appointment but I got him to go.

They put him on a nebulizer. Gave him steroid pills and an advair inhaler - which is different than the small "rescue" inhaler he's been using.

So he followed the meds and he's off the inhaler.

The doc said that basically his cold caused the asthma and the asthma couldn't get better till the cold left and the cold wasn't over and it was just a vicious cycle that THANK GOD now is finally over.

Teach put in her two week notice... AGAIN

Tracy is having a lot of issues right now. She's depressed cause she's lonely. And cause she's stunted staying at home cause she was let go from her previous job with no real cause and now can't get by on this current job where the work is hard and the pay isn't justified.

Also her grandma is basically dying and going through alzheimers in her house so she has to deal with that nd her step sister might sue her dad over some vacation house they're fighting over.

SO when some parent comes and says don't tell my kid to clean up his mess [which some parent actually said] Teach reached her breaking point and put in her 2 weeks notice.

BUT now I think she's back peddling a little faced with the fact that she doesn't have another job to fall back on and the hell it's gonna put the school through trying to find another teacher on such short notice.

I've been trying to help her see both sides - maybe there IS something better out there but maybe this job hasn't been as bad as you think either - maybe she just had one really bad day that spiraled out of control.

In other news - I got a new cat!!!

I was sitting in Will's car in his parent's neighborhood - he had went back inside cause he forgot his hat or something.

In my inlaws area there are a lot of stray cats but rarely does one want a person's affection. They are scared of people.

This cat comes trotting down the street and lets me pet it. Then in jumps in my lap inside the car and starts purring. This cat is not that dirty - just a little dirt on her nose - and she likes me. So I close the car door and keep her!

Then it's brought to my attention that she's not that skinny, not that dirty and people friendly. I might have actually stolen some one's house cat!

But she isn't a house cat. She doesn't have a collar and she was trotting down the street at night time all alone.

So I get her checked out for a microchip and they can't find one.

No collar, no micro chip means my new cat because IF she did have an owner those owners obviously didn't care about her. What if someone not as night as me picked her up that night. What if she got hurt? Who knows. She's mine now and we named her Autumn.