Im in another world in Bittersweet

  • Dec. 12, 2021, 8:25 p.m.
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I dont get it sometimes when people say. Well this is X town. Like that should MEAN Something or make a difference. Last night was the first time we realized in our spoiled little world. That we ARE in another world. And one we dont quite understand.

We let our 12 YO go to the trampoline park. We do it all the time. It was his friend J’s birthday and Friend O was going as well. O is 13, J turned 13 yesterday, Ch is 12. We figured, 3 kids that age, be fine for a few hours at the park without an adult. We were wrong. ch was ganged up on by 3 kids and they hit him, many times. He tried to leave, Tried to get to seecurity, tried to get to the people working there. They followed him assaulting him. They videoed it in the bathrooms.

He called us saying he was sick. We came to get him, and he broke down telling us what happened. The kids went after J after we left, the police were called. We went back and made statements. We were there until almost 11. They closed at 9 and random people were still waiting for their parents to come get them. After talking with the police we elected not to press charges despite multiple videos of them attacking our son and his friend. The cop told us they were from the bad side of town and it really drove home what different world we live in.
I remember one of my previous coworkers saying that parts of this town look like a 3rd world country. The kids are from the bad side of town. The mom came in laughing like it was some kind of wild joke. This is another saturday night for them. Cops, who cares. Kids in trouble. No matter. Its heartbreaking watching these 3 kids go after my son, But what difference would it make. Pressing charges would come down to the parents, be thrown out in court, put the kids through a lot of stress. For what? A fine at best, which would make the childs home life so much worse…

It sucks. I dont know what else to do. Hes ok, His face is swollen from being hit. J has split lips from the kid hitting his face and his braces. J is trained in karate and fought back and put the kid on the floor. The mom tried to use that video as the kids defense. They have 4 videos of her kids attacking and my kid retreating. There was no excuses… The mom laughed and thought it was hilarious.

Im just… This is another world. This is what they mean by you live in X. Parents dont care, parents who dump their kids and they form packs and run wild. The videos suck guys. They really suck. Ch isnt the biggest kid. The kids arent much bigger, but there were several. I just want to leave any resemblance of city behind. Im not cut out for this either. Another year and we can maybe sell this house, There are small towns everywhere. At least in the part of town im living in, its the country. You may get cowboy frights and shit. But its all rodeo and country. I cant handle these gangs and people who think that this is hilarious…

I just… Cant…


❤️vee December 12, 2021

that is awful, and I am so sorry for your child, as well as the other parties involved. I hope my kid doesn't take either side of this scene into his future.

music & dogs & wine December 13, 2021

Ugh that sucks!!! Sorry you had to deal with that :(

ChainedChrysalis music & dogs & wine ⋅ December 18, 2021

Me too. He seems to be ok about it.

Jinn December 18, 2021

That is a nightmare and I would have pressed charges because those kids need a record to be built. Social services would have to look into that Mother and the kids activities. Maybe they would end up in juvie. It would serve them right.
It would be better to live in a small town. The world has changed so much. No place is really safe for children or animals unless they are guarded. It’s a shame but that is how it is. Your poor boy . Thank goodness he knew martial arts to be able to somewhat defend himself. However the trauma will no doubt will be with him for quite some time. He needs to talk about it with you or a Therapist.

ChainedChrysalis Jinn ⋅ December 18, 2021

It was his friend who knows martial arts. Chase will likely be involved in them in thefuture as soon as I can afford the extra 300 a month. I did email his therapist and let her know but she didnt get back to me. I suppose she wont until his next appointment in January. Thankfully I work with therapists so they gave me some ideas of things I could do with him so that he feels safer.

Jinn ChainedChrysalis ⋅ December 18, 2021

That is wonderful . I am so sad that happened to him.

Small Town Girl December 18, 2021

Wow how ridiculous! I'm assuming they didn't even know these kids from school or anything. Just a random attack to gang initiation or "fun" in their eyes. It sucks so bad that this is the world we live in for sure. It's not safe in any city area I feel like. My best child hood friend got held up at knife point in broad daylight in the middle of the after noon coming out of a Target. Right at the entrance 6 kids about the ages of 12-14 stopped her at knife point for her money. She gave it to them. I'd have been like go a effing head and stab me right in the middle of public entrance you little fucks! As a single woman you really can't go anywhere now days either. It sucks. But its horrible that kids cant just be kids anymore and go have fun with their friends.

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