37 lb down from WLS on 12/21- 58 lbs down from HW in Weight Loss Surgery

  • April 2, 2021, 8:57 a.m.
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295 HW 274 SW 237 CW 180 GW

To be down a lb after the way I ate yesterday is a miracle.

So it was someone’s last day and they brought in a bunch of Easter candy and I had 1 pb dove candy. And it was GOOD. But I was able to not inhale the bag.

Then we ordered out from a jap place and I got veg tempura. I was kinda put on the spot. Being vegetarian there weren’t many low carb choices cause everything has rice or noodles. AND I was trying to be cheap because someone else was paying. So instead of getting sushi I essentially got fried veggies AND at the entire portion, which was 6 - 8 pieces. I was feeling FULLLLLL after that.

That was maybe at 2pm. Then I had some TNR errands after work and didn’t get home till 7. I don’t even know if I was hungry but Will had ordered Mexican. He got a veggie quesailla to share and me veggie hard tacos - him chicken I guesss, I dunno.

I asked him if he really needed to order 3 things - I mean, he knows we can barely eat but his eyes are bigger than his stomach.

The quesadilla was BIG - like each slice was like a slice of pizza AND it came with chips!

So I dug in and had like 10 chips with guac and one slice of quesadilla and I was extremely full - like hurting - and I just didn’t even touch the tacos.

I wish he didn’t do that but when I tried to express that I wish he didn’t do tha - esp. since we had healthier food in the house - he got annoyed.

And I just shut up cause I don’t want to fight.

The MAIN POINT ALWAYS IS I HAVE TO HAVE THE WILL POWER TO SAY NO.

I hate that he brings in bad food and I tell him this BUT he won’t stop. I HAVE TO SAY NO.

I could have not eaten it or eaten something healthier from the fridge.

I can’t eat every slice of cake offered to me and then blame the chef! I REALLY have got to learn to say no because I live with the biggest sabotager of them all…


Des April 04, 2021

That is frustrating because he is sabotaging you because he is failing. Just tell him POINY BLANK to stop ordering food for you and you will find for yourself, and be prepared to. But you know you will always have healthy stuff, but maybe that will be thr push he needs too.

sedentary Des ⋅ April 05, 2021

Yes I really do have to do that

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