Gaining in Weight Loss Surgery

Not me, him.

He told me he’s up to 362, from 355. He doesn’t know what he’s doing wrong.

I looked up his calorie ranges. I forget that he’s not even a month out. He’s eating as much, if not more than me, and I’m over 2 months out.

So I sent him some info about what his calorie range should be and told him to get on some calorie tracking app. Which is what I told him last week too.

I also told him that maybe he should start to exercise since he seems all healed up from surgery. He sleeps on his stomach now and doesn’t seem to have any stitch pain or infection. Gyms are open so I told him, since we both still have memberships, that I would go to the gym with him or he can buy some weights and do a work out at home.

He agrees what I say but then I don’ t know when/if he’ll follow through.

I don’t want him to give up on this and I don’t want him to be angry thinking that this didn’t work - cause it did. He has a habit of being all “woe is me” and thinks that things work for everybody BUT him and I know that’s not true but you can’t tell him that. He won’t listen.

I don’t know where I’m at cause I’m not weighing myself during my period. I don’t need bloat weight messing with my mood.