PolyWantACracker
A poly person navigating relationships, situationships, and other -ships.
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Monday, Monday... in Here We Go Again
Bah daaaah, bah dah daaah daaah... I'm at the office and it's a slow day, so I am pining away for five p.m. Not much to report here. I'm trying to be more consistent with writing here. Over...
It's been about a month. What's new? A few things, and not much. Dating continues apace. My two new connections are coming along well. I see them each about once a week as time allows. Work ...
Random Musings in Here We Go Again
I have had people here and IRL mention to me how "lucky" I am or comment on the attention I get. Well, yes, and no. Yes, I am very fortunate that I have been able to spend time with some real...
It's Not Quite the Cold Shoulder, But... in Here We Go Again
...there seems to have been a shift with the wife. We had two playdates, and they were both really hot, but she seems to have cooled on me since the last date. I went back and thought about eve...
Couples Date in Here We Go Again
Remember that woman I talked about in my last entry who offered to let me finger her in the bathroom of the bar? N and I met her and her husband late Friday for pho. It all came together real...
Aloha, Bitches! Updates, Too. in Here We Go Again
Greetings, friends. Your friend and neighbor PolyBoy had himself a birthday last weekend, and N took him to Oahu for three glorious days of sun, relaxation, and adult beverages. It was nice t...
I Choose Not and Doing the Work in Here We Go Again
As we get near the holidays, I want to make a list of things I choose not to do: I choose not to badmouth those who have caused harm or wronged me. You know who you are, you know what you did...
The Weekend. Or Is It Weeknd? in Here We Go Again
I don't know how anything is spelled anymore. 🤪 An overnight with each partner, a holiday party, then two dates on Sunday. Never let it be said that my life is boring. I had an overnight w...
Happy Polydays To You! in Here We Go Again
How does one celebrate the holidays when one is poly? Very, very intentionally. When one has more than one partner, the holidays can get tricky. Are you out to your family? Is your partner o...
ENM Versus Swinging? in Here We Go Again
I've had people ask me the difference between ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and swinging. It's a great question, and I ponder it a lot myself. There are seemingly obvious differences, but the tw...
Temptation, Feeling Conflicted, and Other Things in Here We Go Again
I am tempted to write on and on about what I will now refer to as The Gap - the period of time between when I last wrote here under my other name and now, a period of seven and a half years. Y...
What's Poly Like? in Here We Go Again
What exactly is it like to be poly? (In this economy, of all things!) Well, it has its challenges, that's for sure. I've said it a million times; poly calendaring should be an Olympic sport....
Profile Name and Cast of Characters in Here We Go Again
*edit* - Okay, this is weird. Prosebox is saying I can't post a public entry for three weeks. What the actual fuck? Okay, I guess this will be members only for another couple of weeks, then ...
Back In the Saddle Again in Here We Go Again
If you're reading this, you got here from my old diary. Hi! It's good to see you again! I've been in some form of contact with most of you since riding off into the sunset all those years...
