Birthdays in A Day in the Life of Me

  • April 3, 2019, 2:23 a.m.
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It’s times like this I think that you find out who your friends really are, by who texts/msgs/calls/fbwall post.
I think i know who’s not now.
I see some changes a coming in my 37th year.. and i feel like there is one in particular who is not going to like it.
I went out of my way at like 2am yesterday to make sure she had a post on her wall from me for hers, (because I happened to be up and it’s the day before mine) and what did i get today?
Not even so much as a wave on fb messenger.

And she expects me to work my ass off over easter weekend to run the ticket office for her show this month when i had actually been hoping to see my mom … I think it will be the last.

Every time something comes up, WE’RE the ones that never have time for her, or we have “no use” for her now that the lawyer shit is done. Yet she’s the one who never responds to our msgs or calls, and then tries to lay a guilt trip on us.
I did her up a gift basket for xmas, tried to make new year’s plans, then made sure to msg her several times after her father passed in January, all to no avail.

I’m done. I don’t have time in my life for people like this. I have enough stress as it is.

Do you think I’m being too much?


Last updated April 03, 2019


Bomb Shell April 03, 2019

This definitely seems like a one way friendship.

Happy belated birthday!

Canadian Lass Bomb Shell ⋅ April 03, 2019

Thanks!
i know that's how i feel too....
Apparently she was sick in bed all day today, not to sick as she couldn't post about her power going out though (major rain and wind storm here today), but i bet if i say anything she'll have been to sick to say anything to me the day prior...

fly away butterfly April 04, 2019

A massive happy birthday.
That is not the kind of friendship you need to keep putting so much into when it's so one sided.

Take care

Canadian Lass fly away butterfly ⋅ April 06, 2019

thanks!
It sucks, cause we used to actually enjoy hanging out with them, but its just to much energy to try and maintain civility around her now :(

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