Consideration in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

All in all, at the end of the day its not a big deal. But is it? My boyfriend bought a chair for the family room. I’m happy he finally purchased one, I would have myself but then I would have gotten yelled at for spending too much money. We threw the old chair out after I could handle the smell of it for almost a year.... ( he bought it used) . A year later and we finally get another one, but it wasn’t really “we”.... and it never is. Today he says, ” oh buy the way I bought a new recliner for the family room online”. I know for damn sure If I did that there would be a fight for a week. I purchased living room sets for two of our rooms in this house and before I decided I made sure he thought they were okay. And why did I do that? Because he lives here too and his opinion matters to me. I told him my concern, he laughed and said.. “I’ll send you the link” My opinion doesn’t matter to him, after 12 years it never has and I don’t know why I expect it ever will. And these are the kind of things that make me hibernate in the computer room.
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