Arguement over having kids or not in Misadventures of West Virginia Woman
- Feb. 20, 2019, 8:48 a.m.
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My husband came in arguing upset because due to me being unable to take oral contraception i use condoms to prevent pregnancy. He said he is married not a child he demands to choose when i get pregnant.He demands us not to use condoms he wants to go barebacked saying its time for him to have kids. He acts like his opinion is the only one that matters. Where the hell is my opinion?
I told him either let me have children when i am ready or i will be permanently fixed still make him use condoms due to sanitary reasons. He says he think he might be unfertile lets have unprotected sex to find out. He got upset when i said he can test his fertility at a doctor. He said dr wont let me get fixed without my husbands permission. I asked him what about ex husband? Dont mess with me! I take my reproductive health seriously.
I will be 32 next week. I know i am older but you don’t create what you cannot feed! I am already married to a child why should i create a spare?
My husband demanded us get me pregnant get on wic and foodstamps. He said my parents had to get help from dhhr once.. Nope! Not entire life. My mom has been psych nurse for almost 40 years. Has stayed at same job longer than i have been alive.It wasnt until adulthood i couldnt make enough money to feed my family.
When Talan didnt work 3 month this summer refused to sign up for foodstamps telling me to make do. I have been getting 12 hours a week at work recently he still refuses to sign up. If he cant help feed us now what makes him think he going get me pregnant try to pull same shit again?
My husband is complaining i need to get off the diary to cook him lunch because he was called into work. As always i got to hand deliver him everything he needs to get ready. Funny when i get ready he wont lift a damn finger.
He wants to argue about i have to many clothes.. He dont realise if we have kids my clothes wont look like much at all.. I cant afford his urge to have kids.. Just because he been arguing with me i am tempted to get fixed never tell him the difference.. Why can i choose to have kids or not?
Anaiss ⋅ February 20, 2019
Wow. It's hard for me to imagine you with someone who thinks that way. How does he think he is going to support a child? It's not up to the rest of us tax payers to support his child. What kind of role model will he be for a child when he doesn't hold down a steady job and doesn't show any respect for you, who would be the mother of his child? I am really glad that you have such a good head on your shoulders and that you are firm about things like this. It is YOUR body, it is YOUR choice if and when you get pregnant. My daughter was 39 when she had her baby. There is no big rush, at 32 you are young.
Beret ⋅ February 20, 2019
I hate to tell Talan but he doesn't get to decided what you do with your body. Stand your ground.
Charlotte, Light and Dark ⋅ February 20, 2019
Oh Girl....No one deserves to be treated that way. He sounds like he's getting worse. Ask yourself, "Is this what I want my life to be like?"....
Pockets ⋅ February 22, 2019
Honey, why on earth did you marry him?
He's basically a bum that treats you like shit.
You deserve better than that.
You are not his damn maid. Or his mother. Or his caretaker.
He's an adult numerically and he's more than capable of feeding himself.
And now he wants to add a child into the mix? For why?
I don't understand why you put up with his shit.