Why do you HAVE to be high in Loud Thoughts

My friends smoke weed and get high. Every day, all the time. Especially when we all get on discord and we’re fixing to play games. EVERY TIME. And don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against weed and people who like/need to smoke it for health reasons or even for recreation, it’s the way they act once they smoke it. They turn into complete douche-y lazy asses. Yeah they’re having a good time, but they’re just completely fucking up on purpose, and then it’s always “sorry bro, I’m so fucking high”. Not sorry enough to not so it again because its every night now. And they’re constantly talking about it too. “damn, I’m high” “wow, I’m so high” “bro, guess what? I’m high”. Almost like they’re just rubbing it in. I’ve tried it before, and I’ve had a good experience and a bad experience, so I don’t do it, and I’m not expecting them to stop either. I just want them to settle down, they don’t have to “boast” about it. And I know the minute I bring it up, they’re just gonna get upset. “you need to find new friends then”. It’s not that easy for me, trust me.