Love in Love

When we find that boy who smiles and laughs when you’re around. The one that looks at you a certain way with those dreamy eyes. You think you’ve found the one. He is everything you’ve been looking for your whole life, someone who is your muse and ride or die. You find his jokes to be hilarious, you always blush when you’re around him. You begin to feel like it doesn’t get better than this until one of you say “I love you”. There is no better feeling than that. It’s three simple words that mean so much. To have someone tell you that they love you means that they will stick by your side no matter what, they will show affection towards you, they will be loyal to you, they will always answer your calls and if they’ve missed a call then they will call you as soon as they get the chance. No matter how many I love you’s that you have gotten through out your whole entire life, there is nothing like the “I love you” in an Intimate relationship. Once you’ve both have said I love you to one another there’s going to be an overuse of that word for a whole month. After months in the relationship you’ll start to realize that you’re getting more comfortable with your partner. You start to dress more casual and eat with no shame. You start to fight with one another over small things. You find it easy to get annoyed at each other and begin to raise your voices. Never did you think you would do this in the beginning of the relationship but that’s what happens overtime with any sort of relationship. You build a comfort zone and take advantage of it. You really don’t know what you have once you’ve taken advantage of that comfort zone. There needs to be some sort of line that you cannot cross in any relationship. It’s good to be comfortable with one another but if you’re too comfortable you both begin to say hurtful things that may be a joke to the speaker. The listener on the other hand becomes hurt by there words and doesn’t speak up. A lack of communication starts to take control and over usage of phones gets in the way. No one wants to be treated that way in a relationship, no matter how close you two are. There always needs to be respect, affection and most importantly communication. If you don’t communicate with each other, then where is this relationship going?