Ghosted in Book of RELEASE

I really try to stay positive about the dating scene but it’s most discouraging thing. I’m not a man hater, I love them but, I will never understand some of the things they do. I literally feel like I will be single forever. People say, “Just focus on yourself.” I’m happy with every aspect of myself already. I take care of myself, I’m confident, I make people laugh, I can talk to anyone about anything and If someone needs help(with reason) I am there. What’s there not to like about me? And I don’t mean that in a conceded way. Literally, I wish I could ask these men who ask me out and don’t show up, why even bother me and get my hopes up if the plan to leave me out to dry? The kicker for me....9 times out of 10, they unusually come back with an excuse on why they went M. I. A. for so many weeks that are not even believable for any thinking being. All I’m trying to express is the frustration rings into my core. I’d be okay with my singleness if these men would not dangle hope in my face only to do the predictable ghosting game with me.