THE BEST in Postcards 4

  • Sept. 15, 2018, 12:34 p.m.
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1999 on a visit to the Queen Mary in Long Beach.

I was only married to Paul Adams Hawkins for a small ten years. A short tumultuous time, two children, two jobs, homes with white sofas, lots of art school, and a miserable ending to it all. After two more wives, two more children who loved their Pop, and mountains of stone worked, he died.

I’ve been with Robert George Bailey for a comfortable 35 years. Our life has had its own underlying passions but none like the drunk and drugged years with Paul. We have less creativity but far more inner growth. He’s a loner. I miss the crowds that used to gather every day at my house. Most of all, I do miss him terribly when he isn’t here.

He’s one of the good guys. His boss gave him another nice bonus yesterday, and his manager gave him a raise. I’m not the only one who thinks he is one of the good guys.
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  • Himself: Putting more tape on the stairs to define the stripe that will go down both sides of the steps. Lunch, and work at the museum.

  • Myself: Got a wagonload of new nautical books. Ended up redoing all the moldy, damaged, unsalable hundreds of books I packaged to go out on Wednesday. I was so angry I was spitting when I left because the manager didn’t admit she was the one that left me the mountainous mess. George says to ignore her, and to survive her, I will.

  • Reading: FEAR…in smaller doses.

  • Gratitude’s: George.


Last updated September 16, 2018


Zipster September 15, 2018

Wow, I think of you both as very creative. You are lucky to have each other. I am sorry the manager is so inconsiderate.

NorthernSeeker September 15, 2018

Congrats to George!

Marg September 15, 2018

A match made in heaven! And very wise with it!

woman in the moon September 15, 2018

Dealing with used books is a vocation. I admire you for it.

And I admire you and George for being you and George.

aunty EM September 15, 2018

Congratulations on finding (and keeping) your George. Yes, I do believe he is one of the good guys.

gattaca September 16, 2018

Hardly anyone stays married anymore (it certainly seems that way). I'm glad you and George are still together - here's to making 50!

Deleted user September 17, 2018

Congrats to you and George ! I would pick inner growth any day of the week. It’s a great gift to be married to a good man.

Hillbilly Princess September 17, 2018

So sweet

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