I figured it out. I have driven Bachelor Party Marty absolutely crazy by simply blowing him off. I very rarely answer his texts…so he sends more and more. He invites me over all the time. I ignore his requests. He sends me dirty messages. I answer probably 1 in 20. He booty texts. He sexts. He pleads. It’s so amazing how this has worked with him.
And I completely understand why.
This guy has NEVER had rejection from a woman. This incredibly handsome, well-traveled and somehow successful (still not sure exactly what he does for a living) 33-year-old dude goes NUTS for me - a 50-year-old woman who lives in a 1 bedroom apartment and has a very mellow social life. I think he is astounded by the fact that I appear to barely want him.
Of course he knows I think he’s really sexy…of course he knows I dig his body and I have fun on our dog walks and infrequent outings together.
But I NEVER initiate contact and I SELDOM engage when he does.
Truly, I want something meaningful, but I do have to say it’s nice to get loved on both physically and mentally every few months or so.
We went to brunch yesterday. The weather was amazing. We drank a few cocktails at the outdoor bar that is located off of our favorite city walking trail. We ate. It was so crowded and the place is set up with huge picnic tables. So we sat across from a sweet couple a little older than me who have kids just barely younger than BPM and had this fantastic chat while he held my hand under the table and kissed me on the lips every once in a while.
The couple thought we were cute and the wife winked at me a few times when he wasn’t looking. It was FUN and felt kind of naughty and he really got me going.
So after several hours of him flirting with me, we decided it was time to go (it was actually getting dark!) and he told me he’d give me a ride home (wink, wink), and I let him.
I gave him a tour of the building and we made out on the roof, and I was feeling juuuusssttt ballsy enough to go down on him on the rooftop!!! And that made him go absolutely WILD.
So back down to my apartment where, during the act, he kept asking me over and over, “Are you gonna answer my texts from now on??”
And I told him that I would, but you know I’ll never answer them ALL and I definitely won’t be timely! ;)
No way - this is too much fun!
xox,
GS
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