Red Flag. in The Awesome Chronicles of me.

  • Jan. 24, 2018, 12:28 a.m.
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So Hello again.

Last time I was here, I talked about Dayna who is a nice girl.

BUT. As we have been dating I have found some red flags.

First one, she is kind of clingy and needy. Which i’m not a big fan of clingy and needy but i can deal with it.

(Which BTW, she said youre supposed to call when new years strikes, which I didn’t know.. or is this something I don’t know about)

Second off.. this one is kind of just a me thing but.. She worries about me.. a lot. To the point of almost too much. If we stop talking on FB messenger (Which goes back to the needy thing) for like 2 hours, she asks if i’m okay, or even if our relationship is okay (Which i’ve had to answer at least a dozen times) And its kind of draining on me. I’ve told her not to worry but..she still does, and this goes back to my grandma. She wanted to know when i left places and when i get to places.. that is okay, but i swear it just drains me. And i’ve told her this..

Finally, and this is the big one. I think she gets jealous. And this is a big flag. First off, a while ago she got upset when my friends wife spilled wine on my leg. Second off and this one goes back to the needy thing, she gets upset when I don’t talk to her on messenger when I play board games, even though i’ve told her I can talk on messenger even if its a bit slow (And sometimes she just stops talking, cause she thinks she’s a bother, even though she’s not bothering me, i’ve told her she never bothers me)
But tonight was really irksome. My friends wife took some goofy pictures of me, so i put them on facebook, and she got upset.. she said “Someone else is taking pictures of you, wtf”
She said something about not talking to her (which she stopped talking to me) and something about not being able to see her today (Which the plans got canceled because her kid was sick) and i dunno, it sounds like jealousy. And that is a HUGE flag.
She’s also asked questions like “Who is so and so” when people have hearted facebook statuses. That also bothers me.

I hope i’m wrong, but I’m thinking this is fools gold. She’s great, sweet and she is a nice person, but these flags, especially the last one is kind of a big one. I’ll try talking to her but i dunno.

Bleh.


Domino January 24, 2018

She sounds mental, and that's coming from me! Even if you feel needy and jealous, you don't get cross about someone taking photos, that's bunny boiling territory.

She's right about new year though, you absolutely should've called her.

Domino January 24, 2018

But then, you know maybe sit down and lay some ground rules out? You don't want to lose her if everything else is good and she does look like a lovely lady.

Shattered January 24, 2018

(((HUGS)))

ElvenAssassin January 24, 2018

I agree with laying ground rules... but if she can't respect them, you should flee :/

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