part three in a series
First off, thank you guys for the advice. I knew I needed to write back to Lois Lane within a day or so. I agree with some of the comments to not make it about our relationship, but to make it about her healing from the traumatic loss of her youngest sister. I did add in a little bit about our relationship, but I tried to keep it minimal.
Her FB message to me is on the previous entry. Go back and read for context if you want it.
Here’s what I wrote back to her this morning:
Hi Lois, I’ve missed you too! I know you’re going through an incredibly difficult time and perhaps reconnecting amplifies all of that. I’m so, so sorry for this incredible loss, and I can’t imagine all of the things you are going through. Just know, you’ve always been in my heart - how many times I’ve thought of you and our friendship! It’s only been filled with love. I also believe that yes, those were college days full of drama and immaturity.
I hope that in some way, our reconnection can help with the healing process. I hope you find peace with what’s happened in the distant and recent past. I want you to hold the good parts of your memories and I hope this helps to let go of any negativity. You are a dear person. You are clearly loved by so many. Feel free to share your feelings here. Thank you for your words. xo, GS
As I typed that out, I could see on FB that she was reading at the exact moment (you know how FB shows the little icon after the message? She’s JUST gotten it!
I’m going to close here because I need to step away and walk the dog and get some sunshine.
xo,
GS
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