Concerning Saving barbies comments
Setting the record straight: Let me interject.... Barbies brother is NOT let say me say it again , Is NOT financially unstable.
He owns his own trucking company! I let him use my truck because his wife who is having heart issues can drive the Toyota easier and it is no where a new one it has almost 200,000 miles on it. I have bailed Barbie out of jail paid her electric and helped her in other way from giving her money to paying her bills over the years. I have also raised her third child…who has high functioning autism. I took her second child from her and got custody when I found him in a house with no electric, sitting among nasty condoms, dog poop and electric chord which was run across street so she would have electric and roaches covering everything. He stuck so bad I had to leave car windows down to get to police department . I do not run her down nor do belittle her. She was not molested by a 20 or 21 years old when she was 14 as stated in another post of hers. ( That is unless she snuck out and I did’ nt know it ). because I was so overprotective I did not let my kids out of my sight.I do not need to complain about Barbie to get sympathy. I do not like sympathy from anyone for anything,She has not had to explain/persuade anything to her children because she abandon her daughter at 6 weeks with her step mother and biological father. She got pregnant soon after and showed up at my door. She had another child which I got custody of at the age of 7 months because of much the same reasons I explained above. he other child however was in a home where they were cooking drugs, which has made the 3rd child also have drug issues. I took the second child to the people raising the first child so the siblings could be raised together. On that I made a wrong decision, but hindsight is 20 20 I have enjoyed my third grand son , but would have rather been a grandmother.After not seeing him for 2 years and little correspondence with him she came on his birthday and spent less than 2 hours with him while still being in the area for 2 1/2 days. She had always said she would do anything to be a mom to her children after what happened when they were young. However she has lied about what was happening with Laci and them while in her home. ( Let me say I am not saying Laci did not have some fault in the whole thing) She was taking their food stamp card and and using it so it was not like she was not getting some sort of reimbersment , plus she was charging them 200 dollar a week.( I encouraged the 200 dollar a week before I found out the WHOLE story after my own investigation). Am I controlling probably, because I had a difficult child hood and I tried to make sure nothing ever happened to m y children while growing up. Certainly my fault has been that I loved them so much i tried to control everything. I married and divorced 5 times because i was trying to protect them. Hindsight 20/ 20!!!!. I went from my home as a child to married at 15 and had never actually taken care of myself and thought I could not so I kept finding someone . I was so insecure. I had to unfriend barbie on facebook and block her because of he lies she was posting and the things she was saying to me on message. She can be cussing me one minute and asking me how to make meatloaf in the next sentence, She has bipolar manic depressive schizophrenic who I love dearly but for my own sanity have had to make some sad decisions for my own sanity. I am sure I have caused many of my daughters problems but not intentionally an certainly never to hurt her. The last thing that really blew me away is how she left the man she married here and married Lewis about a week later with no divorce, Now she subjects him to ridicule and fowl language and he sticks by her, he went from a almost paid for home to deep debt and the pawning of his guns and other things. None of this is vindictive but just wanted to let each of you know.... that things are not always what they seem . So just take things for face value until you have the hole truth. I make no excuses for anything I have done wrong with my children and would redo them if possible. I love all of them dearly, but do not necessarily like what they do. I will die knowing I did my best. I will die saddened that obviously it was not enough. I love you Barbie but no I cannot allow you to further ruin Johns life by allowing you access to him to fill him full of lies and the chance that you will turn on him as you have Laci, Curtis, me , Lewis and others. he loves you very much and tells me that I should let him try to help you. Yes he still has faith in you and for that I am glad. From your Mother
Loading comments...