Yes, Cole's father is a freaking tower of strength. I can't bear reading about these sorts of things. My heart just breaks at how unfair it is, and how one stupid person can do something so pointless, and ruin so many lives.

And you're right to keep your wits about you. Not to say that anything might happen to you, but it doesn't hurt to be aware of your surroundings, and play it as safe as you can.