I brought up the non-monogamy thing with Husband. Maybe that wasn’t a great idea. He thinks that I want to cheat on him now. facepalm I can tell he’s upset. I guess I just can’t explain it clearly enough for him. I can’t really explain it to myself.
He said that he isn’t comfortable with it, and he knows it’s for selfish/societal reasons. He said that if I wanted to go out and get someone else, I could easily because I’m a woman, but it would be a lot more difficult for him, since he’s a man. I guess that’s how we are socialized in our society, but I think there ARE woman who would want to sleep with him (I do! I can’t be the only one. He has past partners, after all).
Maybe I shouldn’t have said anything. I feel like he is going to be mistrusting of me now. I haven’t done anything wrong though, so I guess there’s that.
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