I can’t sleep. All of this sexual harassment stuff is going through my mind. I am just floored at the way all of this is turning out. What the fuck is wrong with me? Why did I ever think that he would call and apologize trying to manipulate me into marrying him and we would all go on with our lives? Why do I always have to be such a nice person and care more about the welfare of other people? Does this come from my childhood of hearing treat other people like you would like them to treat you?
I still can’t believe his son in law came into that hearing with an ego as big as the universe. I can’t not wait to go see that counselor and try to begin to understand if this is normal behavior? How someone can even go into a hearing under oath and accuse me of things that are so far from the truth.
My emotions are all over the place. I am still stuck on the fact that I put so much into that company thinking I was going to end up owning that company one day. It goes to show you at the end of the day that people really don’t care about other people. People don’t have a conscience to the things they do in this world.
How can he look himself in the mirror knowing that him and S are trying to come up with some kind of way to get back at me. I still keep saying in my head that I wasn’t even going to sue. All he had to do was apologize and make this right. Maybe he doesn’t care what he did to me all of those years. Maybe he never really had any plans on ever getting those legal documents signed. Maybe he just kept giving me more money to keep me around so that he could keep his company going. Maybe he actual thought that all of those marriage proposal were going to break me down and I would eventual marry him because he knew I wanted security in the company.
All of this is just so fucked up. Why do I always have to be such a nice person? Why do I always have to care so much? Why do I always try to put my best foot forward when it comes to things?
I feel like I am finally pushed to contact the EEOC and launch an investigation. I have no other choice. I hate legal battles. I hate this much conflict in my life. People say stand up for yourself and fight for what you know is right. I feel like I stood up for myself the day I quit my job. All I was going to ask for was severance to go on my merry way.
He did the same shit to his expartner and now me. She walked away and was just happy to go on with her life. How do people get away with this.
Does he even realize that his son in law just made this worse for him? One of the reasons I always wanted a legal document in writing was because I told him that if something happen to him (he is old) that I did not trust his kids. I told him that he knows what I did for him, but to his kids I was nothing. Boy was I right. His son in law is walking around like a want to be attorney. Every time he would come up with a new agreement I would always say did you talk to your son or the kids.
I really feel like I was played for a fool all of those years. I really do. I so wish I would have stayed away and moved on the first time when he tried to reprimand me for going out with a guy. I should have known right then and there that the lines were crossed and walked away. What the f was I thinking? I know what I was thinking. I had kids at home and no other income coming in. I thought he understood that he crossed the lines. After all he was being nice to me and trying to make sure I was ok.
If I am remembering this correctly the first time he showed me that he cared about my well being was after he watched the show undercover boss after a superbowl. I remember he said to me that he watched the show and he wanted to give me a raise because the woman on the show had too many people to take care of in her family and it made him think of me and everything I had on my plate. I was thrilled. He was always telling me that he wanted to make sure I was ok and then in the next breathe holding ownership of the company over my head with marriage proposals. The only thing i am guilty of is not being able to take it anymore and now his son in law is trying to accuse me of things that aren’t even true. I should have walked away years ago and let the company fall. He was always telling me that he knew how much I did for the company.
I remember him telling me one time when we were on a business trip to Nashville that before all of this, him and his kids were trying to figure out who he was going to live with cause he had nothing. It was decided he was going to live with is oldest daughter and this son in law that is now acting like an attorney. He was telling me how blessed he was to have found me and that he was praying hard and the Lord had answered his prayers. Really?! The Lord answered your prayers by finding me, so that one day you could have your son in law accuse me of taking unauthorized bonuses while you sit pretty after years of manipulating me? This is so f’ed up.
God I have no choice but to file with the EEOC. I am fighting for my honor and integrity now. I know he knows I did no such thing and it is really hard for me to wrap my head around someone telling me all of these years that he is so happy he found me, he is so appreciative of everything I did for the company, that he would make sure I was taken care of, he bought me gifts and now because I couldn’t take your marriage proposals any longer to get what I was at one time promised I am the bad guy! I am the one who walked away from a great paying job! I am the one who gave up a huge salary! You lost nothing expect someone who ran and helped build your company like a pro WTF!
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