Well i did it in Well this is life

So me ans wife have been in a dead bedroom for over 7 months again and it has been driving me crazy. We are in an open relationship her idea for over a year but both really haven’t used it. Well I did last night I went on grinder dound me a chubby bear and met up last night. We talked We kissed he sucked my nipples and we both sucked each other off. On one side I feel fine the other side I used him as a sex toy. I don’t know if casual is ment for me but it was good while it was happening.