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still no job. now no unemployment either. I paid his bills last month, all of them. he had an entire bag of receipts to show me with things he had bought for this house, wtf? I didnt ask him to buy anything for this house. one thing he had a receipt for was a wheelbarrow that I told him we did not need. I got pissed off at him 2 weekends ago and told him he needed to get a job, which his response was "I was wondering how long you would be able to handle this" " apparently it is 9 moths" what the hell is wrong with you mister!!! I dont want to be the sole provider for a household. Never wanted to be. you are able to work so I want you to help with bills. lazy mother! he got a call back from his old company but when I told him he needed to take that job he acted like i was throwing him out . I dont know how much I can take this situation. I need a counselor to talk to. His legal issues make this very complicated. I don't know what to do. Im humiliated to tell people that he isnt working or helping with household expenses either.