Things that worry me. in Other life events.
- April 10, 2014, 10:19 a.m.
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Y'know, being overweight i always thought was my biggest problem when i was 16. Now later in life after i spent the ages of 15-20 pretty much indoors as an internet leech playing MMO's; i realize i may actually be a very boring and dull person. I don't have a lot to talk about since i spent my glory days indoors, i don't go out drinking and such and i have no fun tales about my past.
My sense of humor is a little out of kilter and most people don't really understand it, what i find hilarious may make another person question my sanity. I guess this anxiety is coming from having to actually meet a new person next week and fearing the same thing happening that happened with Kathryn.
For example I'll upload a Facebook status about something to do with my day, or a quote i enjoy, or a picture or something i don't know. Point is it will get 0 likes, but someone else can post the word "Boss" and get about 30 likes just for a single word. Am i completely out of touch with how modern society works now?
It's easy enough to fix exterior problems, but i have no idea with how to repair my inner self.
foxen ⋅ April 10, 2014
I worry that I'm boring sometimes too, so I understand. Well, Facebook and social media as a whole aren't really a great way to judge your self worth. As far as talking to this new person, it's always a good step to ask them about themselves. What do they like, where did they grow up, what do they do. Good luck! :)
Flame is Love ⋅ April 10, 2014
Find other nerds. It took me until I was 30 to find any but now they get me and are happy to spend a sunny weekend playing board games. Or, if we are outside, we're on a puzzle hunt. (If you're near a city, this is a good place to start that's coming up soon http://playdash.org)