- list text hereNew Year went to attend the classmate’s wedding, the classmate’s face happy smile told me: she found a good home. I am happy for her from the bottom of my hea- list text herert and sincerely wish them all the best.
See the side of the students, friends a single farewell into the hall of marriage, really envy. I also hope that when frustrated, lonely, difficult, can have a pair of broad shoulders for me to rely on, a warm embrace to comfort me, a word of exhortation for me care…It’s just, I don’t know where he is.
I am not a perfect person, but I yearn for the fairy tale that perfect love. In my heart, there are standards for a partner, I think the standard can give me happiness, but I forget, the best is for yourself. It is now known that feelings are not governed by reason, and mechanical choice is not necessarily the right answer to the heart.
As long as we appreciate each other and love each other, we will go together naturally. Perhaps the great thing about love is that it doesn’t care about eternity, only care about having. It’s a pity that I didn’t gain such a pure love in middle school. With this regret into the society, hope to be able to harvest a pure love. But the reality is cruel, love can’t withstand the test of life, just like the snow can’t withstand the sun. Because of this, marriage is built on a material basis.
I have my own views on love and marriage. Marriage is like the artificial flowers in the vase, can keep for a long time, time is long, our vision will produce fatigue, when it falls on the dust, not be wiped, clean. As time passes, we forget it in the corner. Love is like a fake flower in spring, fragrant, with life bloom beautiful, intoxicating, memorable, but it can’t withstand the change of the season, soon withered.
Love is beautiful, but it is easy to die, marriage life is flat, but we need to stay together, because marriage is a responsibility. After marriage, love needs several changes, first into friendship, then into family, and finally into love. The so-called young couple to the old, both sides should be more trust, understanding, tolerance, only rely on each other, help each other, and to go through the journey of wind and rain.
As the saying goes, ‘one hundred years to ship, one thousand years to sleep.’ Men and women in marriage naturally desire a long and loving life together. However, married couples live together for a long time, it is hard to avoid the dull feeling, the wood, rice, oil, salt in life, and never do the housework, let the men and women in marriage feel that life is so plain as water, so many people into the besieged city often compare marriage to the grave of love.
Love is a special feeling produced by both men and women during love, which is a strong emotion storm to the opposite sex. This feeling is more alive, more intense, more burning than any other. But it is not eternal, it will be like the storm, slowly calm until disappear. It also mutates into kinship and sustains the established family. It is impossible for people to stay in the state of love all the time, so ‘marriage is the tomb of love’. After marriage, the daily life of firewood, rice, oil, salt will fade the excitement of love and sweet, this is the normal state of life, do not have to sigh for it. Love is a feeling for each other, and the feeling is not static, always in change. Must have the caress love consciousness. Young men and women fall in love, fall in love, and get married. Each pair of men and women are chance to know each other, know each other, love each other to hand in hand into the marriage and become husband and wife.
Is ah! Although passion and romance can deduce countless different versions of love, but love is just a tasteless gum, the more chewing the more insipid. Marriage life itself is plain, they are the same destination, and eventually to the ordinary and indifferent. Most women complain that since her boyfriend became a husband, there is no sweet talk, no artificial flowers, no surprise, no care in the past. And men are also complaining, girlfriend became a wife, no longer the former considerate, her gentle and lovely, her tolerance magnanimous where have gone? How come women are always complaining and have so many complaints? In fact, happiness is a kind of feeling, abandon those unnecessary troubles, with a Thanksgiving, sincere heart to irrigate the green field of life, enjoy the sweetness of life, to their loved ones a happy, a warm!
As the saying goes, all shall be well. In life, it is true that there are many lovers become attached, after they fall in love, happily into the palace of marriage. However, unfortunately, after a few years, at least a few years, more than a decade or even decades, the original love has long gone, marriage has also appeared cracks, even broken. What causes love to die and marriage to break up? The reasons are varied, of course, but one may be common. That is, the parties do not understand that love needs to be preserved. Marriage needs to be protected. In fact, love and marriage are the same need to double care, careful management. This will open the flowers of happiness.
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