Is romance just dead for me? in All Out of Balance
- July 5, 2019, 8:31 a.m.
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I wish i felt prioritized. I wish I could stop being told how amazing I am, and just have someone see me for exactly who I am. Everyone thinks my life is great. I have my financial and professional life together, I’m always running off to do something new and exciting, and somehow I’ve given off this picture that I don’t need anything.
I’m not perfect, I’m very flawed, and come off brash at times. I’m not overly emotional, but I am sensitive. The way I wish someone would just hug me when I’m sad, make me feel special, and show me that I’m a priority to them.
As much as I want a solid committed relationship that is growing towards marriage and children, I’m not ready for that yet, or maybe I just haven’t met the person that makes me feel ready for that. All I know is, I’m not feeling priortized or cared for right now. I wish I had someone that could make me feel loved, safe, and secure and not like a conciliation prize.
White Rabbit ⋅ July 05, 2019
Communicate this to your partner. She doesn't know whats wrong if you don't share it with her or him.
Yin no Yang White Rabbit ⋅ July 05, 2019
I know I should, but I don't know how to say that I don't want to compete with your ex anymore without just ending the whole relationship. He's not over his ex from 2 years ago, but I know that breakup had a major impact on his life.