I’m currently in a drawn-out text conversation with The Scot regarding the hotel bill.
He’s been hinting around about PROPOSING to me, and I sputter and cough every time he does, because…WTF? We’ve met once and to be perfectly honest, he’s loving and wonderful and nearly everything I want in a boyfriend, but DAMN, dude! We have a loooong ways to go - not to mention we are physically a looooooooooonnnnggg ways away from each other!
So yeah, I had to bring it up as part of a series of “things that are troubling me” text - I kind of snuck it in there and he replied. The text was very adamant that he’s going to pay me back (though I’m not sure exactly how at the moment) and that he wouldn’t have chosen that hotel or really, NYC during the New Year’s celebrations and he added the fact that he tapped out his savings in order to come visit - but that he did it allllll in the name of love and seeing his “girl” and yada yada.
I did reply back to him that I was extremely uncomfortable with the fact that I even had to bring it up and that in the end, sure, I make more money than he does but I’m not protected during my retirement time and I put a LOT of my money in savings and I let him know that if I were to get sick I’d be screwed. Yet I also don’t sacrifice on the experience. I’m not extravagant by any means with the money that I make, but I don’t want to sacrifice comfort.
So. It’s finally out there and it’s finally being discussed. It might be the end - or it might not. We’ll see.
For now, back to Marie Kondo-ing my closet again…
xox,
GS
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